I want to cry

China
February 19, 2009 1:32am CST
I really want to cry .I can't help myself to crying .I feel sad ,unhappy and also worry about myself.Maybe this is because that I am not strong ,I am not strong enough to stand the failure,the frustration .What should I do ?
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8 responses
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
19 Feb 09
Hello candytang! Oh come on! Be strong. I know you are just try to do it. I often think like that but I always tell myself to go on. Life must go on whatever happen and what really happen to you is a lesson for you to be strong and that you will know what to do if ever it will come again. Can you tell us why you're sad?
• China
20 Feb 09
Happy today ,dear friend ! Sorry for late response. You are right .Life must go on whatever happen and what really happen to you is a lesson for you to be strong and that I will know what to do if it will happen again.I know that I must be more stronger and braver ,I'm the one can help myself ,if not ,I think there is no people can help me ,either.I will do my best .Thank you ! The reason why I am sad is that in those days there are so many unhappy things happened to me ,I lose my heart and can't bear it .I should be more stronger ,if not I will never grow .
• United States
20 Feb 09
you're right..try to move on and look for something that you will forget whoever it is that break your heart.. I am glad you're happy today
• India
19 Feb 09
‘Success is never found. Failure is never fatal. Courage is the only thing.’ — Winston Churchill [b]‘A man of courage is also full of faith.’ [/b] — Marcus Tullius Cicero Be brave enough to live life creatively. why are you feeling sad? if u feel sad always... then it will turn as a disease. then we will be sad always without knowing the reason for our sadness. One thing dear.. i wish to say u one thing.. never believe all persons. Sameway, don't forget to trust and believe the person whom care you.. Finally, "Face your problems" Dont try to escape from it.. that is just temporary solution. I had just told my opinions here.. i too nearly your age.. Experienced people may help you by giving great comments.. Anway, My request to you is, dont be sad.. take a pen and write what all problems you have.. then you will find a solution automatically.. Nobody can care better than ourselves. Take nice care of you!!!
• China
19 Feb 09
Happy day dear friend ! Thank you for your advice ! I think I know what to do now .The reason why I am feeling sad was that there were so many unhappy things occured at me for the previous period .Everytime when I thought about it ,I feel unhappy and sad .I can't help myself. I know this is not good for me ,and if I always treat me like that ,I am afraid I am mad .So I must do something to change it .Give myself more courage ,more confidence. I will do as you said "take a pen and write what all my problems I have ,then I would find a solution ",then I will change the situation of myself . Thank you very much again!
• India
19 Feb 09
Thanks for your response my dear friend... I too once had the same situation like you.. i have nobody for my support that time & i faced all my difficulties lonely. I too was in a 'mad' like situation during my failures.. Try to read story books of famous personlities or things which u interested.. Try to divert your mind.. Being Tension Always is also not good my dear friend..Be in Touch! Have a nice time!
• India
19 Feb 09
I think you should cry. Crying is the body’s natural response to grief and once you cry your heart out, you feel a lot lighter inside. All of us have failures and frustration in our lives…different people cope with these in different ways. There is no shame in crying, if you feel comfortable in doing it then it’s the best for you. I have cried many times in the bathroom for various reasons coz I did not want to give so many explanations to my family. I felt better after that and could think with a clear head.
• China
20 Feb 09
Happy good ,dear friend! After crying ,I really felt better than before.To release my pressures and the grief ,I can refresh myself and let me clam down the emotions .If not ,I will be more sorrowful which is really not good for me . I know I am the one who can help myself ,I shall do my best in all .Thank you very much.
• China
19 Feb 09
What make you so sad? I think the best way is make you busy enough.Then you will have no time to think about the failure.Or you can tell you feeling to your best friend to get some comfort.And I want to tell you that if the failure isn't to threaten your life.It is not big enough to beat you. Believe yourself.It's just a little problem in you whole life.
• China
19 Feb 09
Thank you for your response. Yes, these days I am a few free time ,as you know because of the economic crsis ,our company more or little has been influenced ,we are not so busy as before and there really have so many times for me to think about .Think about the treat I have got from there ,the failure fo the study and others. You are right,it's only the little problem in my whole life .Why couldn't I pass it . I am sure I can .Do you?
• Philippines
19 Feb 09
Hi friend candy! Have you ever tried praying? Or maybe singing your heart out to God? Here"s one of the songs I sing to the Lord whenever I'm not feeling well... "Under the shadow of Your wings, I will find a hiding place. You are my refuge, my fortress in whom I can trust. Under the shadow of your wings, I will find a hiding place. You are my refuge, my God in whom I trust. You are my strength and my shield oh Lord. I run to you and I find help. Under the shadow of your wings will I abide and in Your loving arms I will hide. Under the shadow of Your wings, I will find a hiding place. You are my refuge, my God in whom I trust."
• China
20 Feb 09
Happy today ,dear friend ! What a graceful song it is !Thank you very much .I think I will do it when the time I feel sad to sing out my heart out to God !Thank you again.
@victorywp (3524)
• United States
19 Feb 09
just cry out & you will feel better. don't keep all the sadness in your heart. actually you have did a great job because you share with your friends here. that is also one way to reduce your pain. since you mentioned that you are not strong enough, that is why you need us here to support you & make you strong. don't be too narrow in your thinking, be positive, you will surely regain your confidence. best of luck!
• China
20 Feb 09
I did it a few days before.My tears poured out even though I sat in the office ,I felt wronged and couldn't help to crying .After that I felt a few better . Yes,to share my feeling to my friens ,I would feel good and do better next time .Thank you very much !I will do my best .Good luck ,too !
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
20 Feb 09
Don't be afraid to make mistakes. You'll see that the more failures you have, the better you'd feel. Just remember that these are your stepping stones to being successful. Just don't make the same mistakes twice. Life isn't supposed to be perfect, it's in these imperfections that life is life! Enjoy it.
@jiafei (2)
• China
19 Feb 09
Be strong! you can recount your worried and difficulties to your friend.Don't lose heart,everything will get better!
• China
19 Feb 09
Thank you ! I will do it .Happy mylotting !