common things you find in you when you became mom and in your mother

I know it's wierd!!But the commom thing I've found is exactly what I vowed never to do to my kids. My mom would yell awful things when she was angry. And recently caught myself doing the same. And I was shocked!!! But now I catch myself when the anger starts to build up and get away till I cool. Another thing is that I've grown a little more conservative and seem to accept certain viewpoints that my mother had and I never agreed with. But now it all makes perfect sense.