Close your eyes while kissing??

China
February 26, 2009 7:42am CST
Aha, I am talking to bf online and I suddenly recall last time we kissed eac other. That's a great one coz I opened my eyes in the middle and guess what? I found his eyes closed and was very into the kissing, hoho~and then I closed mine. Kinda funny, huh? Yup, he used to keep his eye open while kissing and I noticed that and then I said he shouldn't had done that. And he explaied that he just wanted to see my face and big eyes! Oops, crasy bf. So now he changed and I think it's more romantic. What do you think? Do you keep your eyes open or closed or just like me, you'd like to have a glimpse in the middle of a kiss once in a while? Share your thoughts and happy mylotting!
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@ratyz5 (7831)
• Philippines
26 Feb 09
Honestly, even though I have not kissed anyone romantically before, I think that kisisng while eyes closed is more better than with eyes open. Even glimpsing every now and then isn't a good idea since you get more conscious about other things around you instead of the sensation of you and your partner having an intimate moment with each other.. If I ever get to kiss someone I like, I'd probably savor it by having my eyes closed.. feel her soft lips as we try to give each other a warm embrace.. hehehe~ now I'm over thinking things, I think (^_^")
• China
26 Feb 09
Hi ratyz, you haven't kissed anyone? Well, how about get kissed accidentally? No girl has done that to you? What a shame, lol! When some of them do this to you someday, remember to close your eyes coz you are right there!
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@ratyz5 (7831)
• Philippines
26 Feb 09
Indeed, what a shame it is, hehehe~ (^o^ ) Nah~ I guess I just have not found her yet, or she's still looking for me (^_^") Yeah, I will definitely close my eyes to really feel that moment with her. Kissing someone while intentionally opening your eyes kills the romantic setting for me, I think.. hehehe~ (^o^ )
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• United States
26 Feb 09
mine are usually closed but if i want to see his reaction to something i will open them. i would hate if he did that to me, but i like doing it to him...
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• China
26 Feb 09
It's soo unfair. Well, it's ok since unfairness is everywhere, lol and it's ok for you coz you are definitely the BOSS!
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@bbsr13 (4199)
• India
28 Feb 09
Hello! Usually ladies close their eyes when kissed by their husbands because at thet time they want to forget everything.If opened it may distract attention and that may not give them satisfaction.On the other hand the husband wish to kiss with eyes wide opened.thanx.
@Zass101 (66)
• United States
26 Feb 09
From what i ahve heard, it is natural to close your eyes when you kiss someone... I might be wrong, but thats just what i was told
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@faith210 (11233)
• Philippines
26 Feb 09
Hi Denise_Tung! haha..Yes, I do open my eyes once in awhile just to have a glimpse of how my husband looks like when he is kissing me. LOL..I do peek! Take care and have a great day! lovelots..faith
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@excellence7 (3418)
• Mauritius
26 Feb 09
I personally think that kissing eyes closed is more romantic. By doing this, I get merged in the kiss and there is more love between me and my gf :D So I would go for closed eyes :)
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@Pleiades (847)
• United States
26 Feb 09
Hehe...well...up until a few weeks ago, it was a year since I had last kissed someone with passion like that. When my online boyfriend came to visit me for over a week, we of course spent as many minutes we could, just kissing. One time, I was curious to see if he kissed with his eyes opened, shut or peeking and lo...they were closed. I don't know why, but that just made me giggle inside and set that fire aflame. Honestly, I think the reason kissing with the eyes closed cuts off that sense of sight and heightens the remaining senses. After I closed my eyes again, I noticed how much wonderful his kiss felt, his colonge smell, the way his body felt next to me...all those things were sharpened. *Pleiades
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@dragon54u (31051)
• United States
26 Feb 09
I experimented with that when I was younger and much prefer closing my eyes. When they are open, it's just a kiss. But when my eyes are closed it is like falling down a soft whirlpool of sensation and makes the world spin a bit.
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@alfpr35 (63)
• Japan
26 Feb 09
it certainly looks quiet awful when a man closes there eyes while kissing ,i can excuse a lady but not men,,,i i like staring at my wife's eyes while kissing ,its fun to me by doing that,,,i mean rather, it's romantic and it helps some one to get prepared for the occasion.................By closing your eyes it means u are concentrating on the heartbeat of your lover and u can easily gauge when he or she is ready.....................................
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@savypat (20248)
• United States
26 Feb 09
I like to kiss with my eyes closed, then you can dream your own dreams and not be subject to reality. Your dragon can turn into prince charming.
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• Philippines
26 Feb 09
i don't know why but i automatically close my eyes whenever im kissing my boyfriend.. and the funny thing is just like you, my boyfriend also used to kiss me with his eyes wide open.. how did i know? i also took a glimpse and saw just looking at me while kissing. so i stopped kissing him and got a little bit mad about.. i personally never really liked kissing with eyes wide open. why? 1. it seems to be so insincere -- for me kissing is supposed to be an action to show how much passionate you are about your partner and make your partner feel cared for 2. i think its rude -- i don't know why though but i just think it is 3. very impersonal -- its like they just look at you and you just can't appreciate the moment you have with that person
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@abcnadz (461)
• India
26 Feb 09
i used to close my eyes while kissing but once, accidentally i opened my eyes and i found that his eyes were open and he was looking at ma face. i suddenly closed it. next time i kissed , i opened my eyes and his eyes were closed. that is when i realised that his eyelashes are really beautiful. hahhaahha...
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@ANTIQUELADY (36492)
• United States
26 Feb 09
seems like back when i use to get kissed i closed my eyes, been awhile. lol
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• Bahrain
27 Feb 09
when I used to kiss my ex-gf, I often found myself opening my eyes in the middle of the kiss and closing them just before she notices it. I liked seeing her face while kissing her, seeing that 'pleasured look' on her face made me feel good =P I used to think like that too, that opening your eyes in the middle of a kiss is rude, but when I actually kissed someone I understood why some people do that!
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• Bahrain
27 Feb 09
..but when the feelings started to get incredibly 'hot' that's when I can't help but keep my eyes closed, it's practically impossible to keep your eyes open while trying to kiss someone with all the love you have!
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• China
27 Feb 09
Actually I have not kissed a girl or been kissed by a girl.As you say,kissing each other while closing your eyes should be romantic .If I have a girl friend another day,I will try it and feel the feelings between she and I .
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@rainmark (4308)
27 Feb 09
Hmmm never been kiss, never been touch. Anyway how old are you? Well all i can say is good luck, how lucky girl is he got a man which is never been shall i say exposed! But for your first time, it's little bit nervous and feels you have a fever lolz. Happy posting.
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@nini89 (670)
• India
2 Mar 09
Most of the couple close the eyes autopmatically while kissing some are so intelligent to see the partners face expressions they open and admire it. I normally close the eyes while kissing. Happy mylotting.
@bombshell (11268)
• Germany
1 Mar 09
most girls like to close the eyes while kissing just to feel and enjoy the kiss.or maybe shy hahahaha
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• Netherlands
1 Mar 09
I Never open my eyes when I kiss! First of all it is the most unromantic thing I can think of as I like to think and dream when I am kissing and 2nd you are so close that it makes me cross eyed which turns my stomach and makes me want to throw up and how romantic can that be?? ;)
@irw0292 (17)
• United States
1 Mar 09
eyes closed are the best way to go about it. plus, who wants to make their gf angry? then you have a big mess on your hands. hahahaha
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@elysium (169)
• United States
28 Feb 09
I close my eyes while kissing with my boyfriend. I think it is rude to open your eyes while your kissing because you may be looking at something else or thinking about something else, instead of concentrating on the person you are in a relationship with. To me, it is very romantic to kiss the person you love with your eyes closed and with no glimpses.
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