life after arriving USA.....

@lalola24 (130)
United States
March 1, 2009 6:31pm CST
When were still young we have a lot of DREAMS!!! there are dreams thats seem to be sooo impossible...and yet some were just sooo easy to attain......i thought being in a foriegn land will be forever in the dream box but i was wrong....and yet i was happy for its such a great thing that happen in any persons life..being abroad...but when you finally arrive in your destinations after a lot of processings that youve been through....i have wondered....is this the right thing???? is this what they called success???? the only tool that i have is my education.....hope i am educated enough for my new life here....Its very nice to know that your already here but yet its sad......super sad....the transition that we will take is not easy....the only thing thats giving you comfort here whenever your husband is gonna go to work is the "NET" thanks sooo much for the connection for this is really the great buddy you will have for the first six months...thanks for "mylot.com" for you can now express whatever your feeling ...whatever you think..and one thing nice is someone will enteract too...i know its very stupid of me to wish myself a luck now that i am here but will see what will happen next few months....
4 responses
• Philippines
2 Mar 09
Hey there! I hope things will get well soon. It's hard to adjust in a foreign land specially if during the first few months. It's depressing just to stay at home. It would be better if there are people, who are from the same country that you came from, whom you can talk to and help you adapt with the new environment you are in. It's good that you have internet connection in you place. You can communicate with your friends and relatives at your country of origin. I hope it will be better for you soon. Have a nice day. Happy posting!!
@lalola24 (130)
• United States
2 Mar 09
im soo thankful when my friend told me bout this site...this is a big relief for me....its not also good to hang around with my same kind...lol!!! funny but true...not all but almost all... they already forget where they came from for theyve stayed here so long....yes its true that they will welcome you and will help you out at first but soon ........theyre going to talk behind your back and they will compare there riches to you and will spread rumors bout you...thats why i just keep my distance from them.....
• Philippines
3 Mar 09
Oh, that's too bad.
@Lore2009 (7388)
• United States
2 Mar 09
Welcome to America. You seem to know your English and that should get you by. I'm glad to see that you have your husband with you too. Good luck and best wishes to new beginnings!
@Lore2009 (7388)
• United States
3 Mar 09
This place is uniquely it's own.. I can say that much and I can only imagine how much of a transition it must be for you... a simple local move is overwhelming, a whole other country!? You have guts... but you will pull through! Just keep learning. Best wishes.
@sunsham68 (1378)
• India
2 Mar 09
Its normal to feel displaced when you move to a new place and the extended arrangemetns and formalities dont make it any easier. However, USA is called the land of dreams for no petty reason and for those with a little perseverance, hard work and grit, dreams can come true. I have a whole bunch of relatives and friends who have found a new lease of life there and are striking it big. If you wanna get into a great opportunity there, do PM me and I can get you to the details.
@lalola24 (130)
• United States
2 Mar 09
yeah thats what they said "the land of dreams" lol but the economy is not in great shape now...soooo many people getting layed off everyday not just one but thousands everyday...i will try myself to end up something that is not bad at all...hey what great opportunity???im interested....
@rezax123 (395)
• Norway
2 Mar 09
In our country we bring servant from the out of town. i mean from the village's. those are the same case who go to the USA with dream. but those USA people think them as servant and do all of those work they will never think bout doing. and they treat those people as slave. so those who have dignity they never even think of going there.
@lalola24 (130)
• United States
2 Mar 09
lol....yeah sad but true.....for you are an immigrant in there country..and what they think is your here to work so they gonna say, theyre really want to enjoy there money on what theyve payed on the workers(immigrants)...you know those foriegners that were treating immigrants soo bad they are nothing but a piece of dirt..but we cant really change it..prejudice people is always gonna be there and will never be gone...but i am taking it as a positive thing..i take it as a challenge for me to try harder...