Can you accept your husband look n a k e d girls on the internet?

@mermaidivy (15417)
United States
March 3, 2009 1:56pm CST
Can you accept it? Do you think it is right? Why do they want to look, they have their wife!?? I don't understand it. What do you feel about that? Please give me your views all wives and husbands, thank you very much!
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10 responses
• China
4 Mar 09
Acturally, my husband do look at the n a k e d girls on the internet. Just like they said, it is called nature of men. I can accept that. If i see he is looking at that, i will sit beside him and look with him together.
@mermaidivy (15417)
• United States
4 Mar 09
OH really? I don't know if I can accept it...
28 Mar 09
ur hbby's lucky!! lol
• United States
18 Mar 09
Oh,this is absolutley normal. Men want to see naked women not for some perverted pleasure(this is usually true) but simply because they are curious. Think about it, you see them everyday wearing clothes, you have to wonder what each looks like without them. It's a normal part of any relationship. Our girlfriends and wives are where we find our sexuality. The internet is where we satisfy our curiousity.
@mermaidivy (15417)
• United States
30 Mar 09
Thanks for responding!
@nut_nut (251)
8 Mar 09
id like it less if it was without me lol with me it might be quite hot :p
@mermaidivy (15417)
• United States
9 Mar 09
So you don't care at all?
@Tianna2 (1274)
• United States
4 Mar 09
Hi Mermaidivy, I'm not currently married, but I dont think I would have a problem with this as long as he shared what he was looking at. I think I can admire a beautiful naked woman as much as any guy can and I might want to see too. Honestly, as long as there are no secrets and everything is in the open, I dont see the problem. Its when couples start hiding things from each other that causes problems. Hugs, Tianna
@mermaidivy (15417)
• United States
4 Mar 09
Yea... I agree, hiding leads problems...
@lynnemg (4539)
• United States
4 Mar 09
I do nahve aproblem with my husband looking at naked women on-line. Thankfully, he doesn't do it. He would also disapprove of me looking at naked men. We both feel that it is disrespectful to each other, and we just don't want to do that to eah other.
@mermaidivy (15417)
• United States
4 Mar 09
That's good that you and him both have same thought.
• India
4 Mar 09
hai mermaidivy, i wanna say u that i will not accept this thing but we must analyze our part also,bcoz there will be a reason behind any problem,either he is not satisfied with u or he may under some mental disorder.dear give that much love and affection that he must not able to think about such bad activity and other ladies.
@mermaidivy (15417)
• United States
4 Mar 09
Does that mean they think they are not physically and mentally satisfied so they want to see other girls??
@ryuvinta (153)
• Indonesia
4 Mar 09
i can not accept my husband to do that, although i sometimes see that he watch that naked movie or picture, i told him to choose that picture or choose me
• United States
4 Mar 09
I don't mind at all. In fact, I purchase Playboy for him quite a bit. (Though, I really should just get a subscription as it is less expensive). Men are very visual creatures, and just because they are looking doesn't mean they are going to go and sleep with the next woman that comes along. I think that being open about these types of things in a relationship is what is important. If a couple isn't honest, this can lead to resentment if one feels the other is doing something without them.
@mermaidivy (15417)
• United States
4 Mar 09
Is it because you and him see together and it is not a secret so you and him both don't think it is a problem?
@HelloMickey (1663)
• Hong Kong
3 Mar 09
My husband is very religious and he won't actively see n a k ed women on the internet. So I can't tell if I can accept or not. But I have seen some po rns films on the internet, so how my husband should feel about it? Actually, he never said a word. Sometimes, women just don't understand men, vice versa. It'll be never end if you try to understand men's movitation on po rn, and you are only bothering yourself. Only it does not affect normal social/marriage activities, I think as a wife, you should not feel bad for it. If it really bothers you a lot, you can see some counsellors in this aspect.
@mermaidivy (15417)
• United States
3 Mar 09
so it is not a problem with the wives ro whatever, they just want to look? I'm just very curious to know whay he wants to look...
28 Mar 09
hmmm men are men