Would you marry a man with impotance?

China
March 4, 2009 7:19pm CST
Hello all. Recenly a couple living in our strwwt divorced.They married three years ago.Before their marrige,the man got impotant becauce of disease.At that time ,many peaple tried to persuad the woman to leave him.But the woman did not leave.peaple praise her.the man grate her.The wedding was famous for its grand.But after marrige,they were not happy as expected.they argue a lot.and at last divorce. At a time,I was touched by their love.Now my dream broke. would you mind marry a man with impotance?
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4 responses
• Philippines
5 Mar 09
love can conquer all... love is patience... love is great!! i think i will still marry a man with any kind of disease as long as i love him... i knew someone a very close frend. she married a blind guy... she is a very pretty girl. used to be a model, the guy never knew how she look like coz before he even know her , he is blind already! so now they are married for 23 years, and have 3 lovely children.... love is beautiful ... specially when you both feel it!
@rsa101 (37969)
• Philippines
5 Mar 09
One reason why you want to marry a person is to have a child with that person. So I guess that is one factor you have to consider in marrying a person. But if your love goes beyond that reasoning then why not marry that person.
• Australia
5 Mar 09
I have to be real here... No I wouldnt married a man that is impotance, or someone that has disability. it may seem shallow to many people, afterall people are saying what can come in between love for each other? I just think, marriage is a serious things and it is for life. To marry someone you need to be able to commit totally to that person. I dont think I would be able to love let alone be committed or marry someone that has disability or if a man has impotance - after all I do want to have kids! I dont think it is very wise of me to get into a marriage without thinking in the long run, just the same like your neighbour I dont think its very wise to marry knowing the impotance of this man, and then divorce a short 3 years later. By marrying and divorcing you are hurting far lot more people than by deciding not to marry in the first place (your dream are broken as the result from their action). BUT, if a man became disabled or has impotance AFTER the marriage, then the right thing to do is to STILL love him, stand by him and stay trully loyal and committed to him, after all a wedding vows said to still love and care and be faithful in the time of HEALTH and SICKNESS :)
• United States
5 Mar 09
I view it this way, if you really love someone that should not matter at all. You can always adopt or have a sugorute mom. Sorry the spelling is bad. That is what I would do if that eve happened to me. To me true love conquers all things so this might be a hurdle at first but I think if you love someone very deeply than this should not matter at all. Take care and happy mylotting.