A friend take her friend to have dinner in my house

@iamfine (740)
China
March 8, 2009 8:08am CST
hello every one, We just move in a new hourse, it is an apartment with 7 bedrooms, and my friends happened to live in my neighbour room. She don't cook becaue she has not cook tools. Now she often come to have dinner with us, almost every night, except Sunday night. She of course never think of sharing our expense on dinner, what's more, sometimes her friends come visit her, she would ask them to stay and have dinner in my place! She seems feel that our sharing dinner with her is nature! She even don't helf to clean up dishes after dinner! So after discussion, we told her that we don't like the way she had done, and we refuse her having dinner with us any more! If she had shared living expense with us, maybe we would accept her, but she gets something for nothing, we don't like that. Now she had to eat outside. Since we are living in a prosperous area, eat outside is expensive, and she does not have much money, we can see that she only have two very simple meal a day, too mean to buy cooking tool for herself! Our life becomes to normal and happy !
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@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
12 Mar 09
I have a friend who is in the habit of inviting people over to lunch or dinner. He has a lot of people in his house eating all the time and it seems like a cool thing. He has a lot of friends. I don't think I can do what he does. I wouldn't mind having people over for dinner but to make my house as their regular restaurant might be a little too much. Cheers!!
• China
9 Mar 09
If i am rich , i will be happy when i give someting to others. In my opinion, sharing something to people is very happy. The most important thing in the world is our relatives and friends. If you consider her as your friends, you should help her sincerely. Howere, you must share the cost and chore.
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@rsa101 (37948)
• Philippines
8 Mar 09
I guess entertaining guests are normal but if becomes habitual it becomes a nuisance already. I think it is already taking advantage of your hospitality if that would happen quite so often. I guess you really need to tell her that it was not nice anymore doing that since you feel abused already. I think you just made the right decision for it but in exchange for that you lose a friend in return.