what are the signs that your boyfriend is cheating on you?

Philippines
March 8, 2009 9:18pm CST
i know there are numerous ways to tell that your lover is cheating on you. just want to know other people's opinion about this topic.
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8 responses
• United States
9 Mar 09
I first knew that my ex-husband was cheating on me when he would go out every weekend....alone. Before that, we would go together. Then, he started to change the way he kissed me (and other things). Turns out, he had a different girlfriend just about every week.
• United States
9 Mar 09
Thank you. It was hard for quite a while. But now, we have been happily divorced for about 8 years, and I am with the wonderful man in the picture. That is our daughter he is holding. And we will welcome a son in a couple of weeks. I learned (the hard way) that things happen for a reason. God Bless.
• Philippines
9 Mar 09
i'm sorry to hear that. i know it was also tough for you because he was your husband. it was not easy for me too because i love him dearly. but i'm now better off without him. thanks for giving me a piece of your advise. i'll always remember it. have a nice day. god bless you and good luck in all your endeavors.
@cherriemae (3370)
• Philippines
9 Mar 09
hi there friend.. well, i know if my boyfriend is cheating when he has no time for me, that i really feel of big changes from him, just like my boyfriend before, he always said that he's busy, but then he's not, that theres really something wrong, i can feel it..and one time, i call him, she's in the restaurant with his student (girl), i dont want to think negative between them but i can feel it and if they together theres really something special going on between them.. now, were already separated and i'm happy with my decision.. happy mylotting!!
• Philippines
22 Aug 10
thank you very much for the advise. it really helped me a lot. god bless!
• Philippines
9 Mar 09
actually there are really a lot of signs you can consider that your boyfriend is cheating on you. in fact hundreds of them were really true. but if you were to ask me of how would i know that my boyfriend is cheating, you don't need to look for an signs and it doesn't take a hundred signs for you to know it. a girl can just simply know that her boyfriend is cheating. you can just feel it. as they say, whatever a girl feels, believe it. it's rather 90% true than looking out for any signs. why? because there are guys who can handle cheating very well. and none of these signs can tell. and i think it will still all depend on how well do you know your partner to know and feel that he is already cheating on you. but my advise is that don't go over board yet unless you have proofs. and never confront a guy knowing he could all blame it to you. or you'll end up being sorry. anyway i hope that you're not being cheated, nor yet never cheat okay. its bad. happy mylotting!
• Philippines
9 Mar 09
i experience it myself. i love my boyfriend dearly and it hurt me the most that he cheated on me. i'm a one man woman and i expect my man to be a one woman man. anyway, there are a lot of decent man out there who will sincerely love me and fight for that love. i'm okay now. thanks a lot. i really appreciate it. have a nice day. god bless.
@lazeebee (5461)
• Malaysia
9 Mar 09
You would notice that he receives phone calls and walks away to whisper into the phone. Or when he previously stuck to you almost 7 days a week; it's now reduced to fewer days - he seems to be busy with a lot of things!
• Philippines
9 Mar 09
thanks for replying.i really appreciate it. you're right he was busy and he had the nerve to blame me for a lot of things.god bless.
• Philippines
9 Mar 09
you can easily determine that your boyfriend is cheating on coz there are changes... as a girl u can really feel it... if he's not the same as you used to with him... changes on he treats you... on how he talk to you and on how he handle your relationship lately... u can realy feel it...
• Philippines
9 Mar 09
thanks. very well said. i experience all of those things before. anyway, i'm better off without him. he don't deserve my love and devotion. enjoy your day. god bless!
• Philippines
9 Mar 09
just look straight to her eyes, observe why he always keeping her cellfone, always not in the mood or sometimes guilty. ^_^
• Philippines
9 Mar 09
his eyes is expression less. he was sweet then but he became cold. i know that there's something wrong with our relationship. thanks for the advise. have a nice day.
@spalladino (17891)
• United States
9 Mar 09
There are many signs that your boyfriend is cheating on you but not all of them actually mean that he's cheating. A sudden distancing of himself from you. Coming up with excuses for being away and unable to be contacted. Phone calls and text messages that are suspicious and end up deleted. Changing his appearance, dressing nicer or taking more of an interest in his appearance. Suddenly critizing you or picking fights for no reason. Mysterious phone calls at odd hours, followed by his sudden need to go somewhere. In all honesty, if you suspect that your boyfriend is cheating on you then either talk to him frankly about it or follow him.
• Philippines
9 Mar 09
thanks for the sound advice. i really appreciate it. actually i experience all the things you said with my ex-boyfriend. he made it appear that there's something wrong with me when in reality i know that he has fallen out of love with me. i sent him an email but he was proud enough not to answer it. he knows how much i loved him and i never thought he would hurt and deceive me this way. again, thanks for the advise and for taking the time to answer my question. have a nice day. god bless.
@Krisneil (577)
• Philippines
9 Mar 09
Simple. If he doenst want to show their personal stuff..
• Philippines
9 Mar 09
thanks. i really appreciate it. that was brief and straight to the point. have a nice day. god bless.