these is for the girls..what will you choose younger or older bf??

@ryaj21 (208)
Philippines
March 11, 2009 7:40am CST
if i were a girl ill choose someone older because i will think they can handle a relationship well and mature enough to understand...but is maturity a question in having a relationship with someone does it matter??or it is just part of the process??well for me being mature in a relationship help you grow not only but to your partner also...
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• Philippines
23 Mar 09
ummm older bf! becoz they are much mature!
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@ryaj21 (208)
• Philippines
11 Apr 09
yeah your right!!!
20 Mar 09
Hi there,for me its definately the older guy..ive been with my boyfriend for just over a year now, which isnt that long i know but things are going great...He is 34 and im 23..I dont think age matters really as long as you both enjoy doing things together, have the same interests...saying that though...the younger guys ive been with have been very immature and seem kinda confused when it comes to treating a lady right which i cant be bothered with..older guys know what there doing, in more ways than one...nudge nudge wink wink...
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@ryaj21 (208)
• Philippines
24 Mar 09
its long already though..i agree with you...i will definitley find a younger gf ehehe..thanks...hope we can be friends thanks...ill add you ..thanks..
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
25 Mar 09
I think older men are better than young guys. One of the reason I think a girl should chose someone older because most of them will be matured and will be there for the girls. Some of the younger boys have the tendency to go after beautiful girls when they see them. Also, most of the younger boys may not be able to have patience enough to go through when problems arise. I think most times matured relationship and older bfs are better.
@ryaj21 (208)
• Philippines
11 Apr 09
yeah i agree..!!!thanks
@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
13 Mar 09
I would choose somebody that at least 5 years older than me to be my boyfriend because I always think young guys(same age or close) seem to be like a kid, need to be taken care of backwards and they think chidishly. Older guys tend to handle everything better and have confidence to do stuff. That's what I think.
@ryaj21 (208)
• Philippines
15 Mar 09
mmmm i agree with you..but do you think it is too old five years older than you???
@ryaj21 (208)
• Philippines
15 Mar 09
and hey by the way i really love your pics with your dog..its really cute..i really love dogs i have dogs here but not that kind of dog...its really cute it makes me smile when i see your cute dog? whats the name of your dog by the way???it is so cute...it reaally makes me smile..the dog can project its self in the pic..its cooll...
@pratik87 (1927)
• India
11 Mar 09
hey i am a guy so sorry i am posting on this discussion..even i think girls tend to go for older guys but i want to know why do girls think that only guys who are older would be mature enough to be in a relationship with them.what does only age have to do with maturity? many guys who are even 30 are not matured enough..maturity is a part of how a person thinks and not how old he or she is.
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@pinkceza (76)
• Philippines
10 Apr 09
i prefer to choose older guys for mecoz some of the guys that is younger then dont reallytake a serious relationship. the tendecy is they used to play with girls they are not matured enought. some of the older guys used to have rules in their relationship i encounter such a problem with my lover before he is very matured. and im the girl that has a littlebit childish. sometimes he used to shout me. but im trying my best to understand everythin but after 2months we broke up he told me that its not working anymore.
@ryaj21 (208)
• Philippines
11 Apr 09
that's cute!!!
@jd107nette (1454)
• Philippines
12 Mar 09
I've always thought males of the same age would be better because you share a lot in common... And older guys usually are dominant.. Then one time came when I actually met a guy of my age and at the same time a guy of about 7 years older than I am... Actually they are just friends, who just call or email a lot... I find the younger one usually talk nonsense or opens up topics that I have to bear just to not make him feel bad, and later on he ends up arguing with me for having different ideas.. hahaha... contrary to that, the other one has a lot to say... he accepts opinions and if he finds it opposing to his, he just lets it go... I guess, maturity does matter...
@ryaj21 (208)
• Philippines
15 Mar 09
its cool i guess your right i talk non sense to maybe i am young enough ..ehehe
• China
15 Mar 09
I don`t think age is problem if you love the guy!My bf is youger than me but we are classmate and there are much common ground betwen of us.We enjoy every minute we spend together.So i think which one you should choose as partner is the one who can make you happy no matter he is youger or old. Have a good day!
@ryaj21 (208)
• Philippines
24 Mar 09
cool nice to know..thanks you have a point there..