facing bullies what can i do

China
March 13, 2009 3:30am CST
It is painful when some of my friend bully me. people's need to attack others is often for their own satisfaction. I am not jealous others but instinctively want to protect myself how should deal with bullies
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@underdogtoo (9600)
• Philippines
13 Mar 09
I do not like to be bullied and I stay away from situations where bullies might be there. I do know how to defend myself and bullies are not a problem to me. Words can be very powerful and I know how to use them to deflect any bully. Cheers!!
@syankee525 (6296)
• United States
13 Mar 09
well i was bullied most of the time in school, even since i've gotten older some tried. but my best friend used to get bullied too from friends. this how you deal with them, first of all they aren't your friends if they are the ones. you stand up to a bully most of the time they will back down, dont let them see you upset at all. when they see they are getting to you they will keep it up. but not allowing them seeing they arent they will just tried of messing with you. i dont never say use fighting to solve anything, but sometime we got to do what we got to do, specaily if someone is hitting you. but you need to stand up them, be proud who you are. dont allow anyone to push you around, but people who bullie are jerks, and often they hate thier own life. but be strong and stand up to them good luck
@venchaul (541)
• China
13 Mar 09
I think, first you' better make sure if your friends bullied you,maybe they were just putting your leg or something else. If they actually bully you, you can talk with them seriously and say what you want to them when you are in good situation. If they are the friends who are worth becoming, they should respect you first,I believe. I hope you can deal with them smoothly! Good luck!
• China
13 Mar 09
first ,you should calm down,,,,,must , second,,common living ,you should keep closed with easy-going people ,not easy-bully ones, third,you must always notice yourself that aviod errors, fourth,if you have to work or live withing bullies,you should to communicate with them carefully,or less communicate,,, forth,facing to bullies,keep silence sixth,having the confidence to deal with those things welcome!!!!! ,new comer!!! mylotter