crushed!
@mamalovestoread (692)
Canada
March 21, 2009 11:40am CST
I threw my ex-husband out 2 years ago. We got divorced on feb 20/09! A few weeks ago I found out that he has a 5 year old boy! Even though we are divorsed it crushed me to learn that he cheated on me. I have two children ages 3 and 18m for him. I had a son that passed away he would have been 5 dec/08!
Absolutly crushing! Just wanted to vent!
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6 responses
@momtrying2makeit (3270)
• United States
21 Mar 09
I would be upset too but I guess that is why you are not with him now. Cheating is wrong and this is unfair to you. But I do want to say do not take it out on the child that child is related to your children now too so I would try to make an attempt for them to get to know each other. Take care and happy mylotting to you 
for you :(
for you :(2 people like this
@mamalovestoread (692)
• Canada
21 Mar 09
You couldnt be more wrong lol! I left him because he was more of a roommate then a husband. He never took any interest into his child! He was abusive and yelled and screamed alot. He has nothing to do with his children now hasnt seen them since last june. The other lady that has his child has nothing to do with him either. He hasnt even seen that child. She doenst know that I know about her! I didnt know he was cheating on me until only a few weeks ago!
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@momtrying2makeit (3270)
• United States
21 Mar 09
well you are better off without someone like that. I mean I would not put up with that crap either. I was not trying to assume about the cheating part I just figured I guess. Sorry if I upset you at all that was not my intention at all.
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@nympha687 (940)
• United States
21 Mar 09
i understand how you feel. i know the relationship is over but it pains to know how blinded we were and how our trust has been abused. anyway, since you've thrown him out years ago, throw out this thought and think that it was better you found it just now. it would've been a different story if you found it out then. cheer up!
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@roniroxas (10560)
• Philippines
22 Mar 09
well the good news is you are divorced already cheating will not happen no more to you but who ever she will be with will sure be experiencing that cheating act. i walked out on my husband 7 years ago. he does not know where we are and i think he does not care either. well thats good. we dont like to live our lives with him. i understand that is absolutely crushing but in the good side it is over you no longer have nothing to do with him.
@mamalovestoread (692)
• Canada
22 Mar 09
Thanx for your responce. It is true i am rid of him. He has nothing to do with me or my children.
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@skysuccess (8858)
• Singapore
22 Mar 09
mamalovestoread,
**Pat** **Pat** I am really sorry for whatever happened and feel for you here.
Your ex is really a disgrace for the rest of the men. I am just baffled to bewildered on how he could have done such a thing and to walk out betraying the woman had dearly loved and devoted to him. Anyway, he has just made a karmic choice and as the saying goes whatever goes round comes around. Just do not be overwhelmed by this as I am sure there's just so much more out there and that your 2 lovely kids are just in need of you.
So, look and step off forward and move on. We just do not need such a pathetic "shrub" around, there are much more beauty out there for a lovely person like you.
Take care and have a nice day.
@ljames8585 (129)
• Canada
21 Apr 09
I would feel the same way. Together or not he still cheated on you while you were together.
@katsalot1 (1618)
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21 Mar 09
I think maybe the positive way to look at it would be that is just as well that you are divorced now. Imagine how much worse you would feel if you had still been with him, and found out about his other child in 10 years time!
@mamalovestoread (692)
• Canada
21 Mar 09
Yea that is so true! Im just glad he is out of my life! He doesnt even see his children! Mine or the other chicks!
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