Am I right to think this way

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Ok, here is what happened....My boyfriend went out with his friends after work and said he would be home at 6:00pm for supper....he did not show up until 2:30AM and did not even call throughout the night to let me know....ok that's fins, but there is more....I had to work all day the next day and it was a snowstorm....I knew there would be lots of snow in the driveway when I came home and I would not be able to walk through it....I asked him in the morning if he, at some point, could shovel it for me so I could get in that evening after work and he said he would.....I came home and the driveway was full of snow....I was after working 8 hours and I was tired and hungry and just wanted to go in the house and relax but I had to first shovel my way to the door.....I asked him why he didn't have the courtesy to shovel it for me since he was sitting home all day doing absolutely nothing and his excuse was "i was too hungover and was laying down all day".....I dont know about you guys, but I dont cater to drunks....I have no pity for someone who drinks themselves sick...he could have controlled his drinking, I shouldn't have to suffer for it......He should have at least shoveled for me....I don't think it was fair that I worked all day and than had to come home and shovel, cook supper and clean up the house because he sat around all day doing nothing because he drank too much the night before.....if you irresponsible enough to drink too much, you need to suffer the consequences...that's my opinion....did I also mention that we had plans for that night as well, but he canceled them at the last minute because he was too sick to do anything...I Dont think that is fair either....if I had of known, if he had of called and told me he was getting plastered the night before, I could have made other plans with my Saturday night...I work 6 days a week and my Saturday nights are precious to me and because he was selfish and thoughtless, he drank too much and ruined my entire weekend.....is this fair or am I overreacting....I feel like he is walking all over me and I am not a priority to him and he doesnt really care about my feelings.