Am I right to think this way
March 23, 2009 8:33am CST
Ok, here is what happened....My boyfriend went out with his friends after work and said he would be home at 6:00pm for supper....he did not show up until 2:30AM and did not even call throughout the night to let me know....ok that's fins, but there is more....I had to work all day the next day and it was a snowstorm....I knew there would be lots of snow in the driveway when I came home and I would not be able to walk through it....I asked him in the morning if he, at some point, could shovel it for me so I could get in that evening after work and he said he would.....I came home and the driveway was full of snow....I was after working 8 hours and I was tired and hungry and just wanted to go in the house and relax but I had to first shovel my way to the door.....I asked him why he didn't have the courtesy to shovel it for me since he was sitting home all day doing absolutely nothing and his excuse was "i was too hungover and was laying down all day".....I dont know about you guys, but I dont cater to drunks....I have no pity for someone who drinks themselves sick...he could have controlled his drinking, I shouldn't have to suffer for it......He should have at least shoveled for me....I don't think it was fair that I worked all day and than had to come home and shovel, cook supper and clean up the house because he sat around all day doing nothing because he drank too much the night before.....if you irresponsible enough to drink too much, you need to suffer the consequences...that's my opinion....did I also mention that we had plans for that night as well, but he canceled them at the last minute because he was too sick to do anything...I Dont think that is fair either....if I had of known, if he had of called and told me he was getting plastered the night before, I could have made other plans with my Saturday night...I work 6 days a week and my Saturday nights are precious to me and because he was selfish and thoughtless, he drank too much and ruined my entire weekend.....is this fair or am I overreacting....I feel like he is walking all over me and I am not a priority to him and he doesnt really care about my feelings.
• United States
23 Mar 09
Does he do this often? How long have you been together? He's taking you for granted and being a jerk. Look at this as a portent of things to come! I would have a talk with him and tell him you're not going to put up with it and if this is how it's going to be--well, there's a lot of fish in the sea and you're not going to settle for less than the best.
23 Mar 09
I have tried to talk to him, but he says I am crazy and a bi**ch. He thinks he is right to treat me this way and sees nothing wrong with it and when I try to talk to him about it, he jsut tell me to get away and stop being psycho.....and he actaully makes me think sometimes that maybe I am thats why I come on here to see what everyone thinks! He is inconsiderate and says he wont change....guess it's up to me to throw him to the curb!
• United States
24 Mar 09
My question would be how often does he pull this bunk? If he is a jerk more often than not about things I think it's time for some soul searching if he's worth your time. I will admit my hubby pulled something similar where he was supposed to be home @ a certain time and went out afterwards with his buddies, turned into a batchelor party with drinking & strippers He came home trashed @ 2:30. He's only done it once and that was 10 yrs ago. And unfortunatly men are stupid when it comes to drinking til they are older (hopefully) and are big wuss' when they are sick. Shoot I may not drink but I've been sick enough and still been able to take care of my 3 kids decently. Whereas my hubby he gets the sniffles he's on the couch dying....
24 Mar 09
OMG!first of all: If i was in ur situation, I would be soo angry that he came home at 2.30 am and not 6 as he said he would!!!My boyfriend stayed at his mates, I told him to charge his phone, but he never did, never spoke to him that day (we talk everydya) I actully went all the way to his friends house so i can talk to him,,and he looked so tired! he goes "he only just got back" I thought he was out all night! I would be thinking all this stuff about girlss xD YOUR BOYFRIEND IS A D**k Head!!KICK THAT PIECE OF SH*T OUT THE HOUSE!!Unconsiderate BA**ARD