It's not you... it's me!

No. But I have "we'll always be friends" a few times. Wonder what happened to them! LOL.

I did something close to that in highschool. I was dating a great guy but I had a huge crush on another guy that I had absolutly no chance with. But I felt I was being unfair (I was really stupid back then) to my boyfriend so I broke up with him and crushed him and it was really bad and really stupid on my part cause he was a really great guy. I have regretted that for many years (20 years yeah a long time ago).

breaking up sometimes its not easy and one always want to part ways on a friendly manner. Yes I did use it once with someone whom I did not get quite well on together.

i don't believe i have ever used that. don't think i was ever that nice. lol

Yes once, someone used the line on me, but the funny thing is. It was true. I knew it was him and not me. He had a problem keeping his thing in his pants. I was just the stupid one that was sooo in love with him and wanted to keep him. Oh boy, can we be stupid in our younger years i have also used the line on someone, but I didn't think it was me I really thought it was him, but I just wanted to put it nicely. I have also used the lines of "I just want to be friends" guys don't like to hear that either!! But hey, sometimes some people are better off just friends. Oh yeah, he no longer talks to me and he still to this day talks bad about me. I find it quit funny how immature he is and am so proud of myself for not actually getting into that relationship. I would have just wasted my time. His true self came out after I had told him that.

I have never broken up with some one from my side but yes i have been given marching orders before and first time it was like i dont think we are compatible and second time it was just no talk for 6 months and then told ur history so i havent got this line till now and hope not to hear it ever in my life.

I've used it once, as well. I think I was being as honest as i was able to at the time. It was me, but it was him too. I regret how I handled that breakup, but who has loads of consideration in their late teens...

Many people think that "truth" is written in stone. Actually truth is very flexible. what is truth one day, can be an untruth the next. For hundreds of years people believed the world was flat, what was truth then, is an untruth now. You told your bf the absolute truth at the time. Never be ashamed of telling the truth, and remember, if its the truth at the time, its perfectly ok if it changes later.

No Never no body called me nor i called to any body till now

I haven't used that line. well, i mean... i used it differently. I told him that It's his problem why things happens and not mine so we broke up. ^_^ Thank god no one used that line to me... YET. hehe :) LOL. hope that time won't come :p

hehehehehe!..Boy does that bring back memories!...YES!...I used that exact line many years ago when I was only 17. I left home and moved halfway across the country with a boyfriend of 4 years. Then I decided to stay where I was and not go back home. I broke up with him and told him it wasnt him, it was me!...I had to stay to find out a few things about my family....YA RIGHT!...lol

Nope, haven't used it and no one has ever said it to me. And I hope it stays that way. It's always better to give a person the real reason for breaking up than to offer explanations that doesn't really make sense.

yeah I remember that line lol It's not you, it's me! You deserve better! etc lol

I have used this line on a couple of occassions. It is very cliche but in the end, sometimes it is the truth....for the most part i think its an excuse to use as an easy way out.... by saying "its me"---yes it is me..me not wanting to be with you...plain and simple...

no and no I really don't like being blamed on something I didn't do although sometimes I can't seem to explain the situation I still won't let the other person get away with it and take the burden or blame which is a good thing because they were keen on blaming me anyway so I won't give them that pleasure

yes i did once, when i broke up with my first boyfriend. i said this line because he was blaming himself for our break up. and i felt so guilty about it because as a matter of fact it was really me who is been attracted to another person. and in the first place, i didn't like him at all. i went on to our relationship because my parents like him and i was curious that time what does it feels to have a boyfriend. but i was never been serious with our relationship so i broke up with him and use this line. anyway, happy mylotting!

Yes did.. It's because I felt that It was me... and well a part of it was also him and the reason why It became me it's because of him.. umm do you get what I mean? I just did not want to hurt him so I used the " It's not you.. It's just me.."

and it's been said to many different TV shows, and product commercials good thing that i had never experience that a woman says that line or else that would be a real DAMN THING for me hahaha

Hello humbug! I know what you mean. Sometimes, when breaking up, a person who wants to break up would use that line. I never tried to break up with someone and never tried to be told by that line. As we all know, my husband is my first boyfriend. But I admit that I used that line to my husband especially when we have some little misunderstandings although I didn't use for breaking up with him. I just said that it's always my fault everytime we have misunderstandings (which is true) and that there's something's wrong with me not him and I'll say I'm sorry.

Hi, no I never used the "it's not you it's me " line on anyone. No one has used that line on me, they were at least truthful except the one who stopped calling and said nothing.