bringing up kids

United States
March 24, 2009 12:22pm CST
what impact do you think the television does on our kids? there is neighbour of mine who does not have a television in his house and when asked, he said he wouldnt want to corrupt his kids... i then wondered if this saying was right, i guess not... i want to ask you if you can tell us the impact of television on kids...
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@zhuhuifen46 (3483)
• China
25 Mar 09
TV is a modern media, few can do without. For the kids, moderate control is needed, not to spoil their mind and their health. There are quite some part good for their knowledge expansion, say the nature channel, the children channel, and for teenagers, they need to keep up with the news and technical development. Confining children in greenhouses is no good for their mental immune system, so to speak. With a balanced education for personality, they will learn how to tell bad from good.
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• United States
25 Mar 09
thanks vey much... very educating
@Eweniks (361)
• Nigeria
24 Mar 09
Well, television has both positive and negative impact on kids, depending on the kind of program they watch. Any home without a television is incomplete. So, the only thing is for the parents to monitor their kids and educate them on the type programs to watch. Children learns a lot from the kiddies programs. They can also get corrupt if they are allowed to view some corrupt channels.
• United States
24 Mar 09
thanks so much for contributing... it was really educating
@laglen (19759)
• United States
25 Mar 09
We don't watch tv here either. Our sets haven't even been turned on for about 6 years. Instead, we read, talk, play games together. I find this much more enriching than tv. I think parents use tv as a babysitter and that I think is bad for kids.
• United States
25 Mar 09
thanks so much.... its really educating
@icegermany (2524)
• India
25 Mar 09
every people have their own way of thinking and that is why your neighbour and your thoughts differ. i know some people think that the tv corrupts their children and they dont keep a tv at home and some keep it out of childrens reach may be till some extint they are right as there are childrens who tae advantage and watch things which is not meant for childrens and they get influenced. but there are also some educational channels which children should watch but they dont do that, may be children take time to understand that, but then too i think having tv at home is not bad and the thing is parents have to always have watch and also guide them what to see and what not see.
• United States
25 Mar 09
good talk... thanks so much for the lecture...
@Boofybutt (316)
• United States
24 Mar 09
I think a lot of it has to do with what you let them watch, and if you talk to them about it. Try to answer any questions they have as honestly as possible, but, try not to scare them with it either. It's important for them to know what's going on in the world, and to appreciate what they have that other people do not. I also think that if you take as much time with them as possible, it will be easier to keep them from being corrupted. My kids are 7 and 5, and we spend most of our time reading or playing outside. They usually only watch TV for 30 minutes in the morning,after they're ready for school, and that's Dora the Explorer.
• United States
24 Mar 09
thats true... but sometimes you might not be around and they just tune it and start watching...
• United States
24 Mar 09
Very true. I guess I'd just have to trust my kids, and in the way that I raise them. Hopefully I'm doing it right.
• United States
24 Mar 09
I think eliminating tv completely is a little extreme but just like anything else your child sees or hears on a daily basis it is going to affect them. Parents need to be in control of and responsible for what their kids watch on tv and for some it's just easier not to have to worry about it.
• United States
24 Mar 09
true.. like my neighbour said, i quote "why will i have something that i know will not benefit me" very funny though
• United States
24 Mar 09
it is funny, like i said not having a tv at all is extreme, it has some good points, my kids love animal planet and it has gotten them to want to learn more about certain places and animals, so it certainly has it's place, for me it's my living room, haha for others it seems like they have one in every room which i think is just as extreme as not having one, but hey at least other parents in the neighborhood know if there kids go there to play they won't be watching filth.
• United States
24 Mar 09
Anything can corrupt a child. Take a look at fairy tales. Anything from Sleeping Beauty to Beauty and the Beast teaches a child that eventually in their life, a dashing young prince will come whisk them away after sweeping them off their feet and they'll live happily ever after in a huge castle with guards and maids and no forseeable problems. You can corrupt a child in many ways. Yeah there are a lot of programs I wouldn't want my young child to watch, but the TV can also be a valuable tool in learning. Children learn by repitition and by watching, so educational programs can be a valuable asset to a child's education. The TV isn't all bad. It's about closely monitoring what your kids are doing.
• United States
24 Mar 09
good point you have... i think i will rate this
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