I never share problems with any one

Even though you don't share your problems with all, you share them with few (at least) friends right? It is a basic human nature to share his problems and joy with others (especially friends). I too don't share too many problems with anybody. But I do have some other reasons for not doing so. I really don't wish to share them with anybody for not disturbing them for my problems. I always feel I can resolve the problems and GOD has given enough strength and maturity to handle these. But removing a problem by not dwelling it enough is very difficult. We have to dwell it in our mind and get its basic reason why it happened. Once we get it, we can solve it by many ways.

You ae right reubypatson.Only dim-witted people share their problems .They are so lazy--never try to figure out something all for themselves. Happy Day, Ritwik

I rarely share my problems with anyone except for my husband and my best friend. When it comes to my family and my children, I am the strong one...the rock that everyone always turns to...so I find it hard to be vulnerable with any of them. I guess that's one of the problems with being the oldest...I've always been there for everyone else and don't feel comfortable showing weakness.

I used to not share my problems with anyone. I am not an open person at all. But, I am a person who always advice my friends in their problems. One day I had a big problem at work, I didn't get a promotion that I deserved and my boss was so mean to me. He wanted to give that post to my colleage. So, I was very upset. I made a call to my best friend and was crying and crying, but I couldn't tell anything. He was keep on asking. I was crying and crying and it took me around 45 minutes to share my problem. Do you think it is wierd? After marriage also I used to do the same thing. If I am upset or angry or mad at my husband, I kept it with me and didn't share it with him because I didn't want the matter to convert it to a big fight. My husband hates it extremelyl. He wants me to share my sadness, agry, and other problems so that he can help me and avoid doing those mistakes later. He says that if I share my problems I can feel so relaxed. So, I have changed a lot and keep changing.

at least you still share to somebody. sometimes it's better not to share but if you are too loaded you might just explode or get sick. be careful. share to people who you think can truly understand you.

I shared my problems with my friends and hear their feedbacks, but most of the time, it won't help must, instead, i get more confuse and things getting mess. But i still appreciate that all of my friends are being so nice to me. But at the end, i still the one who need to fix my own problem. Good to share though.

I'm the same way, I really don't talk much about my own problems, except to my boyfriend or my best friend. But for some reason I seem to be a sounding board for everyone else's problems! I guess the less you talk, the more others talk to you. :D