If You Had The Chance?

@irishmist (3820)
United States
April 10, 2009 12:14am CST
This is not a fly by night question, this is serious. If you had the chance to go back with someone you had been with, ok lets say you were with them twice over the years, and stuff happened, nothing bad, but you both changed and are thinking of getting back together, and you had been talking Via email and phone, not to far away, but living a distance apart. Would you consider being with them again? and you still have so much in common and both of you have mellowed in your own way, would you want to get back with them?
3 responses
@Grandmaof2 (7603)
• Canada
10 Apr 09
No I would not. All too often I have seen people do this and it does work again for a short time but we need to understand we are getting older and I just want happiness for the time I have left. Once I'm gone I'm gone for good.
• United States
10 Apr 09
So true! So true! Go forward, never go backwards. There has to be more out there. After time you fall back into that same old pattern and just end up wondering why you did this yet again. Stay close friends or hey even friends with benefits till the right one comes along but do yourself a favor don't go bakwards. The best direction is always FORWARD!
@irishmist (3820)
• United States
10 Apr 09
We do have history, the first time was he messed up, the 2nd time I messed up, because I thought we had grown apart, but this time we may have a chance. We have not been dating each other , just talking, but I feel like now I'm ready in my own way..... Ummmm ok I may need someone to talk to about this..?? Even though I am an adult, Yup I'm gonna be 50 this Month in April, not looking foward to it.
@soulist (2986)
• United States
10 Apr 09
yes. There is one person that I would want to get back with if I had the chance and he wanted to give our relationship another shot. THe distance wouldn't matter to me, and I would work hard to make our relationship work this time around.
• Philippines
10 Apr 09
If i have given a chance i would to work in other country like California new york or canada, becuase it is mu dream when im a child and until i finish my studies, but i know someday my dream is to become true.