Can passion devolpe or does it Have to be there in the beginning?

United States
April 11, 2009 2:30am CST
I have been watching Eric Scaffer's show , Why Am I Still Single and he asked many couples if they had instant chemistry when they met and everyone said yes. So I am asking, does passion have to be there in the beginning or can it grow in time?
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@jillhill (37383)
• United States
11 Apr 09
For me it's got to be there right away.....I just heard a thing on the radio that like 75% of people don't go on a second date if the kiss isn't good on the first...I don't know if it can grow.....I haven't been that route....gotta be passion right away for me!
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• United States
12 Apr 09
If the passion isn't there and that feeling is mutual, then why not be friends? And just because the passion is there doesn't mean you will be friends. I never tried to find everything in just one person. It is a bizarre concept to me.yhanks for your response.
@winterose (39918)
• Canada
13 Apr 09
It depends on the individual it can go either way, for me the passion has to be there first or it never grows, my sister grew to love her husband over time, so it all depends on who you are as a person.
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