Do I Move On Or Keep Holding On??

I understand what your saying but yea he knows that im in love with him but i never expressed it to much. i mean i expressed my love for him but didnt go overboard with it cuz i was afraid of the fact of what you said. And what i dont understand is if he wants a break and time away from me then why does he still call me ALL the time. And still see me?? i've even tried telling him that maybe we shouldnt talk or see each other so this will work out better but he said he cant not talk to me. So thats what i dont understand. And if he does love me like he tells me day in and day out why would he not want to be in a relationship with me? he says he just doesnt want to be in a relationship with me right now. Is that cuz he wants to leave it open so it gives him the chance of finding another girl but still keeping me an option? cuz if thats all i am is an option i dont want that. As much as i love him i dont want to be like a second pick you know?

That is what I am suspecting now. So I guess what you should do if he really wants a break off with you then move on and try to avoid his calls and dates since that is not at all right for you to keep you hanging in there. If he truly loves you then he should not let you wait on just to keep you while he doesn't know what he really feels for you. It is unfair that he knows you accept him whenever it is convenient for him to do so.

i've been kind of blowing him off telling him im busy when he calls. and it seems to get to him. And i know probably wasnt right for me to to tell him this but i was with some friends and a guy was hitting on me. So i told him and he got so angry. And i dont understand that if he doesnt want to be with me then why does he care if another guy was flirting with me or what not. im just so confused by this whole thing.

thank you so much. thats exactly what i wanted someone to say. cuz in my heart thats what i feel is right. but alot of people say differently. to move on. when i really dont want to. this weekend he went to tennessee with me. and we had an amazing time. it just felt right. he was so sweet to me and loving. people say not to let him like kiss me and everything but i cant help it. and i do believe he still loves me because like im on vacation in indiana with my mom cuz she lives here. and me and him live in michigan. and he drove to indiana just to go to tennessee with me. so if he didnt love me why would he take the time and money to drive here just to see me?? i believe things are getting better with us and if we do get back together i will be more happier with him and i think love him more because with us apart it made me realize that i really do love him and what it feels like to be without him.

i've asked him how long he expects me to wait. he said he doesnt know how long its gonna take. and i dont know what feelings were lost. he said he doesnt even know. he says something just doesnt feel the same anymore. and he thinks that a break will make it better and get those feelings back