Goodbye is not easy.

Philippines
April 20, 2009 6:54am CST
My friend since 2004 and my room mate for almost seven decided to move to an apartment with his brother. Moving is her moms idea, for her brother's sake. I remember last august when she ask me to go with her on our current house which I did. And now she was the one moving again. I don't know what I shall react on the situation. We haven't been into an strong argument for I always give the way. I think it is better for us to separate for I while. I don't know. But I will miss her so much. Hope she feel the same way. I am the kind of person that if someone really close to me it is very hard for me to say goodbye. I can help it. I might cry after 26 days starting today. It seems easy for her, I don't know. The case is her brother and me. Of course, she'll choose his brother.
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@bamakelly (5194)
• United States
20 Apr 09
This could prove to be a period of adjustment for you. It doesn't mean the end of a good friendship necessarily. Life is about change friend. Change happens and people need to move on to different things. Sometimes to better things but it shouldn't make you so down. Your friend needed to do what she needed to do at this particular moment in time. You should send your friend the best wishes because they could also have some fear about the changes. A separation at this time could be what you need anyway just to get your mind straight. I am sure that you will have some moments where you will greatly miss this person. You could find a way back to each other in the future under different circumstances. Things have a way of happening in life that could surprise you. Take a look at this circumstance as a chance for new beginnings for yourself. It could be that she is not choosing her brother over you. It is just the choice of the best situation for her at the time. I sure hope some of my words have helped you.
• Philippines
20 Apr 09
Well said. It definitely help my worries. My birthday is coming up next month. I think I should give her a treat before we separate, right?
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