What will you do if you get a fling pregnant?

@n30wing (4771)
Philippines
April 23, 2009 8:15pm CST
If it happens to me I'd have to be sure if the child she is carrying is mine. If the child really is mine I'll take the responsibility as a father, owning up to responsibility as a father is part of being responsibility for my actions. But as for marrying a fling I can't correct a mistake by marrying a mistake. Have a nice day to you all!
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• Philippines
24 Apr 09
I used to have flings in the past and I never have some such problems with that. I am taking safety precautions as much as possible as I don't want to encounter such pregnancy problems. I am not yet ready for that kind of responsibility. I know that I am responsible for anything that I will do and I am not like any other girls around. I am monogamous now and in a serious relationship with my current bf.
• United States
24 Apr 09
I think your having a fling my friend. I just read your other post. I think your a stand up guy either way to take care of your actions this way. I find being I am a woman if I were to get pregnant by a fling. I would have my child and raise it on my own. I would most likely leave the state before he knew I was pregnant with his kid.
@maezee (32236)
• United States
24 Apr 09
Didn't you just start a very similar discussion..? What's with you and flings? . I'm going to go ahead and answer your question anyway, because I can't find any others to answer right now. I think two people should NOT force themselves to get married just because they have a child on the way. If that's the case, the marraige would most likely fail - people should ONLY marry one and other if they are truly in love. I think the two "fling" participants should act responsibly and communicate between eachother & see what's best for them to do. Hopefully this will mean raising the child (happily) separately, such as a couple would do if they were divorced or separated.