Dating a girl...cheated on or something....
@danrunsfast614 (1396)
United States
April 26, 2009 4:31am CST
So, I'm dating a girl. Or was. I spent the night at her place yesterday. I woke up this morning, she asked if I was in a good mood. I said yes. Then she told me something that really shocked me and has me reeling a bit.
"I have a boyfriend. I met him before you and I don't really like him as much as you but he is flying here today. I didn't want him too, and I want to break up with him but he already had a ticket, so it wouldn't be fair to him to tell him now. He will stay with me for two weeks, but I like you and want to be with you after he leaves."
She was crying when she said it, but I didn't care much. I just said okay. Don't call me again. And walked out. Now I feel funny. I just want some people to reassure me that this is the right thing to do or something. Just leave. Thanks!
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4 responses
@Sissygrl (10912)
• Canada
26 Apr 09
Well i think different people would act differently to this situation, but i for sure would do the same thing you did.. If she didn't have the respect to be upfront with you from the beginning, how would you know if she'd ever be honest. not only that, but if she cheated on her current boyfgriend with you.. then who is to ssay she wouldnt do the same thing to you?!
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@danrunsfast614 (1396)
• United States
26 Apr 09
Thanks for the response. It helps hearing it from other people.
@Archie0 (5636)
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26 Apr 09
i think you did right, this is not just the way to talk on something. i mean how she can just say this, she should be either sides she should say the guy that she doesnt like him, she is hanging both you and him. if she cant tell him then better you leave her.if she cnt leave you better she kicks him off from there.she cant play game on either sides or tyr luck anywhere.
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@brisk123 (2823)
• India
27 Apr 09
Hi friend, this is bad!I mean, if she really liked you and wanted to keep this relationship with you, she should have been honest with you.She should have told you everything in detail before things messed up.It must be shocking news to you when she told you about her boyfriend,but I must say, my friend you did the right thing leaving her and telling her not to keep in touch.She deserve it.No relationship can stick, if there is no honesty.If you like/love someone,you should be able to trust that person and let he/she accept you the way he/she is and not hide things so that the other person may like you and go around with you.So, forget about this girl story and I am sure you deserve somebody nicer who will love you and not lie to you.Have a good day!
@prinzcy (32322)
• Malaysia
26 Apr 09
At first I want to say, yup, she love you, and you should stay. But then she didn't want to tell the guy just because he already bought the ticket and already heading over. She will be staying with him for two weeks! I understand that it might be hard to break the news to his bf that she's currently dating you but it still unfair on your side.
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