i want to Singapore to see my BF by myself,but i don't have enough money...

China
May 4, 2009 3:59am CST
I've been thinking this plan for many times,i want to see him,i try to earn money through all kinds of way,but it doesn't work,how i wish i've graduated from college,then i can be free i don't want to cost my family's money,gosh,what should i do??
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@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
4 May 09
It is easy for you to keep in contact with your boyfriend through emails so that is great. When I came home my Australian ex-husband and I had to send letters that took one week. Long distance international phone calls in those days were very expensive indeed. I think you should discuss the possibility of studying with your parents. If you graduate from college you would be able to easily pay them back any money. You could save up over how ever many months it takes to visit your boyfriend in Singapore. Whilst you are waiting you could compare airfares to try to get the cheapest deal. An overland route would be possible but it would take ages. Good luck.
• China
6 May 09
Thanks for your advice.
@silverglint (2000)
• Philippines
4 May 09
It must be hard to be away from your BF, but for now, the only solution would be to earn extra money so that it will not cause you or your BF's family anything for you to visit him. Maybe you can consider buying and selling stuffs or doing part-time jobs.
• China
4 May 09
yeah,thank you,so i search the internet and find mylot,though i haven't earn much money,but i got a lot of support here,i think i'll try harder to do what i dream
@fwangaa (3057)
• China
4 May 09
your friend in singapore, i think if he love you , he will take your to singapore , and you don't need money to there. and may be he can come to china to live with you.
• China
4 May 09
yeah,he loves me,but he's still studying,and his father plans for him everything,so it's really difficult at present...
@hanah87 (1835)
• Malaysia
5 May 09
Oh pity on you.Dont sad.One day you can see him.
• Philippines
4 May 09
Why not ask your bf? If he really does love and miss you he will probably be the one to visit your place for you. Or the other way around, but he will be the one to give you money for the fare. If he's working in Singapore that will be easy for him. Since, you're still in college, he will surely understand that you cannot immediately see him.
• China
4 May 09
Thanks for your advice,but it seems more complicated,he's also studying there and i also don't want to cost his money,and it's my own thought ,maybe there is some other way that don't need too much money.