My Cousin Passed Away. She Was Just 7 Years Old. I Miss Her A Lot!!!

crying - crying a lot
India
May 8, 2009 12:22pm CST
When i used to come from college, the first thing i used to hear from her mouth was-"kuku is home". My all the tiredness used to vanish on seeing her. The only thing she liked was chocolates. So whenever i came home i brought a chocolate for her. she always shared it with me. We have a joint family and She was the youngest child. she was playing on the roof when she fell down from 5th floor. She is no more. Whole our family miss her a lot. There is no one who will eat these chocolates anymore. but i keep collecting them still in her cupboard. that some day she will come and eat them. Have you all lost anyone so loving?
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@Maryam27 (411)
• Pakistan
9 May 09
I am so sorry to hear about that Deepak. May God give you and your family courage and sabar. I lost my sister but she was just a month and a half old. She has jaundice and wasn't cured. So she left us. Whenever we talk about her, my father still have tears in his eyes. These are little angels and i hope they are safe and happy and are enjoying life in another world.
@Maryam27 (411)
• Pakistan
9 May 09
And one more thing deepak, instead of keeping the chocolates there in the cupboard, why don't you give them to some other children in the park or anywhere you see them while going home? At least it will make someone happy.
@rsa101 (37968)
• Philippines
14 May 09
My condolences to you and your family. It is sad and tragic to see children dying at that age. We always see children growing old like us but never do we foresee these things happening at their age. I do hope that you will recover from your loss soon.
@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
9 May 09
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First of all, my biggest condolences to you and your late cousin's family. I know of such a soul whom have touched the lives of me and my family before, but she is no longer around. Not that she has passed away, but she has moved to a further place in life and we could not get in touch with her anymore. She is a young child, but totally brilliant and especially charming and loving with her humor and zest for life. I truly love her and my family's life has been so happy with her presence. But she's no longer in touch with us due to some circumstances. Her dad has migrated and moved on so she has to follow her family. As for your situation, I understand perfectly well what you are going through. Be patient, my friend for time is the only essence to heal your wound as well as her family. Slowly the pain will go away, leaving only fond memories. I know how that chocolate is a symbolic thing in your life and once you are able to move on totally, you will also let go of those chocolates as a symbolic gesture of letting her go. Slowly, but surely. Take care, friend.
• China
9 May 09
well,though my grandfather have been passed away many years ago,i would understand you at all. 7 years old,too young...everyone have their own fate,but it seems this would not be the best one for her. she must be a very lovely and clever girl..
@Hedwig (283)
• China
9 May 09
So sorry for your cousin, and also your loss. What a pity to leave the world at such a young age. It is devastating to lose a family ,especially so unexpectedly. No matter how sad we are, there is nothing we can do to bring them back. So just move on and bless your cousin happiness in the heaven!
@Exprezo (58)
• Philippines
9 May 09
Im sorry for the loss... When i was younger my grandma and i used to play everything but because of her illness, she passed away... Actually it hurted me a lot... Losing someone you love...
• Philippines
9 May 09
I am sorry to hear that.
@rajeshfgh (1629)
• India
8 May 09
I am very sorry to hear about your cousin. It must be really hard on you, but life doesn't stop and you need to move over the loss. Life can be very cruel at times.
@dropofrain (1167)
• India
9 May 09
It is really touching to hear such a discussion from your end. I can actually feel the pain in your words. It is really sad that you have lost such a lovely and cute person. I think you should stop getting choclates as whenever you will see chocolates you will feeel more and more depressed. As a grown up you know that she is not going to come again in your life. Her place can only be replaced, so please try and indulge yurself in some activities so that you can forget her soon. :)
@berrys (864)
• Singapore
9 May 09
its only natural for you to grieve, but please don't grieve too long remember there are people who love you and her too. she's in a better place now and im sure she's being surrounded by good people. keep collecting those chocolates. it shall be a memory for you and that one day when she comes for them you guys shall unite and bond over them chocies. god bless.
@clorissa123 (4926)
• United States
8 May 09
I am so sorry to hear that. I betcha that you really miss her alot. It is not so easy to lost someone so dearly to you. The memory of that person will linger on your heart forever. Be strong, and she always be there for you.
@cindyhxf (1446)
• China
9 May 09
I really don't want to hear this sad news.she was just 7 years old.very good age for kids.i understand your sadness from that.chocolate is so sweet but might you always think of her when you see chocolates.we bless her still lovely and pretty in the heaven,friends.
• United States
8 May 09
I am so sorry for your loss. I can feel for your loss. I lost my grand daughter last September. She was only 6 years old. We all still miss her. She was a special needs child and had been sick her whole life. She had alot of physical and medical conditions. I know exactly what you are going through.
• Sri Lanka
9 May 09
My deepest sympathies Deepak_online ... Now she must be in a very nice place and looking down at you :-*
@smileonstar (4007)
• United States
8 May 09
HI, first thing, I want to say I am so sorry for your lost. It is hard for all of you to take it right now. However, she is in a great place with no pain, no fear and no worry. She is so young and it is the most depression moment for your family. please don't be sad, you are doing the right thing. I know, she is coming back for her chocolate. You are a great cousin.
@dodo19 (47113)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
8 May 09
I'm really sorry about your cousin. She was so young. My heart truly does go out to you and your entire family. I'm sure that she will come back to eat them. And in the mean time, you can keep collecting chocolate and eating them, just like you did with your cousin. I'm sure that she would want that.
@jess07 (319)
8 May 09
Hi, I'm so sorry for your loss and i feel your pain, my cousin passed away at birth. I was very present with my aunt while she was pregnant, and stayed 6 days night and day in the hospîtal after she gave birth to the twins (of wich one passed away).It was a very difficult time. It's always very hard losng a family member, it's even harder if that person passes away to soon, and at a young age. Be Strong and Keep Holding On . If ever you need to talk, you can always contact me by message i will always answer. Be strong...
@TLChimes (4822)
• United States
8 May 09
I'm sorry for the loss of such a young soul. She seems to have been an important part of your families world. My cousin was lost a few months shy of her seventh birthday... it broke the hearts of half the town. It was in a car crash that also took her fathers life as well as two others.