Which one would you pick?

United States
May 11, 2009 4:42pm CST
Okay, there is a situation. You get into a relationship with 2 girls. One, who loves you more than you love her. Another one, you love her more than she loves you. Which one would you pick for marriage or permanent relationship?
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13 responses
@HelloMickey (1655)
• Hong Kong
18 May 09
Go for your heart. I think if you really love the girl, that makes no difference to choose the one you love her more than she loves you or the other. This is the case of my hubby, I think he loves me more than I love him, at least I would think like that, but how can we compare such abstract thing like LOVE? I think I can't love him more, but after I saw what he did to me, I know he loves me more, and I am so sure about it. But I asked him before a similar question like who loves the other more, he told me I love him more, he told me I love him so much that I can live with a guy like him and always care with him so much. That's the point! He thinks I love him more and I think he loves me more, to have a sweet marriage we should choose someone you really love. That's it. Have a nice day~
@roanne05 (1290)
• Oman
16 May 09
it never happened to me, but if ever..i guess i will choose the one that i love...
• Philippines
16 May 09
I think I would go for someone who love me more than I love her. But she has to be loyal, understanding and patience for us to jive in.
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
16 May 09
Sorry neither because it has to be mutual feeling or else its going to go down hill. Relationships are hard enough why start off with a negative. Good Luck to you!
• Malaysia
14 May 09
I would suggest you pick the one who loves you more than you love her. It works for me, you'll be grateful to have someone who love you more. Bit by bit you'll fall in love with her more. But you got to be open of course. Good Luck!
@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
14 May 09
First, if you are in relation with 2 girls, you don t love no one. First you must learn that a man who are in 2 relations in same time, is a looser. If you must make a contest, you must call both and let both choice you or not. I AM SURE THAT BOTH WILL GIVE UP. For marriage you must to choice who you love and love you too.
• Canada
11 May 09
Hmm well if you pick the one that loves you more than you love her, she will end up getting hurt. And if you pick the one that you love more than she loves you, you will end up getting hurt. It's a very difficult situation. If I could be faithful and happy I would choose the one who loves me more. If she could be faithful and happy I would choose the one that I love more.
@amrith (291)
• India
11 May 09
If you expect something from somebody and love it is not true love if you can give something and if tey accept that love it is real love so it is better to love the girl whon you love and if she love you not the one who loves you more than you love her In the first case you are the giver and in giving love you get happiness as long as you have a generous heart you will be happy pouring happiness . happiness is in your hand.
@fwidman (11514)
• United States
11 May 09
Angelsmummy is right, for the best long term relationship both people should be in love at a fairly equal pace For the sake of argument though, given only those two choices I would take the one that loved me more than I loved her. She will definitely stick around through thick and thin a lot longer than the other one.
@larish (2191)
• Philippines
11 May 09
Choose the one you love more because that person can make you happy. Don't jeopardize your future by choosing someone you love less. If you choose someone you love more chances are you will be more motivated to have a future with her. You will be more inspire and energetic. So go for someone you love more.
@111flylcx (267)
• China
12 May 09
I think I will choose the first one.At least I am the important one in his heart.I hope I can take my lovers'attention.If I love him more than he loves me.At the most time,he will not pay more attention to me.
@angelsmummy (1696)
11 May 09
either way you or one of these girls are going to end up getting hurt, break up with them both, concentrate on yourself and love will come along when you least expect it, its unfair on yourself and these girls to be playing them off against each other and love is a horrible emotion to mess about with.
• United States
12 May 09
I would take a break from both and see what I feel. Sometimes people get rushed into feelings that they really don't have or was never there. Feelings grow with time. So first I would find out who I cared about first then go from there.