How would you know if he's the ONE?
May 12, 2009 4:24am CST
It's so nice to see couples getting married, I mean two lovers getting married as they plan. But I wonder how will you know if he's / she's the right one for you? What are the things that you need to know? Is there any go signal that you need to know?
14 May 09
i have a lots of boyfriend before in where i realize that they are not really for me. the things is I did my part as a gf but still it didn't worked. And now? I'm getting married this coming 2nd of June to the person I never expected to be part in my life. Before , he is just a person who passed in my way without saying HELLO. I just saw him and then nothing. Never think of him but the time just comes that our feelings are in one way. You can feel it and just be open minded and be in soft heart. I never expect that he is the one I'm waiting for, all I know that he is the one and I felt it, and now I'm whole.
13 May 09
I had 3 boyfriends before I found love with my now husband. I also ask the same question "Is he the one?" for every guy I am committed with. The reason I know that my now husband is the one for me is by enumerating all his negative traits. After that, I ask myself if I can live on this negative traits for the rest of my life. And the answer is "yes". With the first three boyfriends, it is always a "no". It really help me because I have no great expectation when I marry my now husband. Loving someone should be unconditional, you must learn to live with his bad attitude as well.
12 May 09
as a person you have the list of the qualities you long for to be a part in your life, so finalize it and start searching, planning, observing who is the right guy for you. thats what i really did when i was young before got married . i pray to God that He will give the right man for me that is in my list. if you ask the Denine guidance for it , it will e given to you. and you are the one knows what you would like to do and when.
12 May 09
To tell you the truth, I didn't really know or see a sign that my hubby (then boyfriend) will be the person I want to spend my life with. It's just a gut feel, like everything's right, that I don't have to worry if he's around or anything, that his presence makes me feel whole, that I cannot imagine a day without him. It's inexplicable, if you ask me. Maybe compatibility or complementing each other would be a tell-tale sign, but for me, it was more like, "I know he's the one, I just can't explain it, but I know."