Do we need to have a reason why we love someone???

Cebu, Philippines
May 12, 2009 7:39pm CST
Some would say that loving a person doesn't require any reason why we love someone,but others would say how come you can say you love him/her without any reason? So my question is, Can we love someone with or without any reason?
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@jbrooks0127 (2324)
• United States
14 May 09
When we think of something that has to have a reason for it most of the time if not all of the time it is our brain telling us what to do. However when we love it is our heart and there often is no reason for how we feel. To love is not a thought but a feeling and a wonderful feeling it is indeed. So if you really love someone and you are ask for a reason there is no need to respond because it is not a logical thing, you just feel it. We fall in love because there is something in that person that makes us complete. They have something we don't have but wish we did and at the same time they have many qualities that we do have and admire. You can't think your way into love. If you do it is false love and it will fail.
• Cebu, Philippines
27 May 09
But we must admit that we want to hear something from our partner why we've been loved by them right? I think just making sure that they are really loved you eventhough some people who are in a relationship their partners have to say lie.
• United States
13 May 09
I think there are reasons. We may not know what they are however so for someone to say "why do you love me?" or "why do you love them?" is a question that none of us could answer.
• Cebu, Philippines
13 May 09
So it is safe to say that you love someone because it could be in his/her physical aspect, attitude towards you and other people right? or in any reason that you could have think of.
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
13 May 09
I don't think it is a matter of reason, I think it is just an emotion that none of us can really control, I guess it would be good if we could just turn our feelings off like a tap in some cases...I thin k it is just something that happens and we can't control it.
• Cebu, Philippines
13 May 09
But I guess there's always a reason why..it's like when you notice someone ans fell in love coz she's handsome or pretty that's already considered as a reason isn't?
@Jezebella (1446)
• United States
13 May 09
I think you can love a person without a reason, but we all have reasons why we love someone. I mean I love my boyfriend because he has a good heart, he has dreams, cares for his younger brothers, protects me and so much more.