Would you share ur bf/gf or spouse?

@Citychic (4067)
United States
May 16, 2009 4:09pm CST
Hey friends, if you had a friend who didn't have anyone would you be willing to share ur bf or your spouse with them for intimacy? Would you feel sorry for them b/c they didn't have anyone or would you be like, get ur own?
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12 responses
@asherem2 (257)
• Thailand
20 May 09
wow! what about you chic would you share yourself to me? as far as i know culturally that's being done by some tribes as a sign of their hospitality towards the visitors but i guess, nowadays, that one is just wistful thinking - no one in their right mind will share their woman to someone else... but i'll tell you - there's two ladies friends who'd shared their lover to one another and i think it works out fine with them.. and in our belief system - isn't it called adultery? in spite that we might called it a classy name such as having "affairs or having multiple partners?" in other words, no matter how we hide it behind some not -so 0 offensive words - it is still simply called as "sin." what you say about it?
@Citychic (4067)
• United States
20 May 09
Would you share??? I agree, we must call a thing what it is, in the end it would do no good to try to fancy it up. This sort of thing I have never done nor intend to do. Also in answer to your question my answers is NO I would not share myself with you asherem2 b/c first of all Idk who you really are. Not to mention where you've been. But it don't matter b/c I just wanted to see how others out there were thinking. I did have a gf that mentioned sharing her bf with me before. But I was like, no thanks. What the heck, I'm not some charity case, lols. I can def. pull my own......Have a nice day and thanks for participating.
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• Philippines
16 May 09
I wont allow my friend to borrow my spouse. She can get her own. There are lots of men out there I know she can find one. It is not right and I think It's not also approved of the bible.
• Hong Kong
19 May 09
I agree that everyone can find their own, no need to share this important people from others.
@Citychic (4067)
• United States
20 May 09
thanks for participating. I would love to touch more upon this subject but right now I have a few other things that I need to do. Anyhow I think that it would be wise not to share. Even though there are probably quite a few that are doing this. Happy mylotting.
• Philippines
23 May 09
i agree with angelbelle. hehe he can find or she can find her own partner. haha
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
31 May 09
i wouldnt want too, to me it's wrong, plus she might like him better then me.
• United States
26 May 09
i would never let anyone sleep with my husband he is mine there is no way i would share there are so many guys out there she could find her own
• Philippines
15 Jun 09
Of course not. I won't allow it even in my dreams. I could help her get her own partner but I will never share mine. He's only mine. I don't think it's right to share your boyfriend especially your husband to others. I think it's morally incorrect and may even break your relationship either with your partner or friend.
• United States
23 May 09
No definitely not
@guia10 (139)
• Philippines
21 May 09
For one thing, I know my hubby will never share me with anyone..but on sharing him with another girl...still uncertain about that...I guess it will depend if I'll feel threatened he'll become attached to her after that...if it's a one time thing, maybe - depends on the mood I guess...to be on the safe side, I might not do that... :D
@sacmom (14192)
• United States
21 May 09
Nope, there is no way that I would share my husband. I guess you can say I'm greedy, because I want him all to myself. As far as the friend is concerned they can go get their own! As the saying goes there are plenty of fish in the sea!
@srganesh (6340)
• India
17 May 09
It is not like lending a book or pen.A partner is a live person with whom we are intimately related.Everybody have the option to have one for their own and they have to have someone.Nobody should expect others to spare.
@HelloMickey (1655)
• Hong Kong
19 May 09
Of course not. I don't buy this theory to share my lovers to others, that's very difficult to understand why some people can do it.
@RedDiary (138)
• United States
16 May 09
well its not that we are sorry for them.. but me i wont share my bf.. hahha.. they must look for their own bf =X
• United States
19 May 09
Hell no. Who would want to share their boyfriend or girlfriend? I would tell her if she wants to be "shared" that I'm not her guy and to try the strip joint down the street.