If somebody was in prison, you don t accept to be friend with him? why?

Oh, Icesmile! This one is really easy for me. My husband is in prison. He didn't commit the crime he's there for, and we're working hard at getting him a re-trial so he can come home. I know a lot of people think all inmates say they're not guilty, but that isn't true. When I go there to visit, the inmates tell about what they've done, and it's often pretty awful. There are some others who aren't guilty, and that's a horror, but it happens. In Florida, where we live, the laws and the courts are very backward-thinking, and the sentences are extremely harsh. I've met a lot of really nice people in prison, as well as some horrible ones. They're pretty much the same as anywhere else. Incarceration shouldn't change anything about relationships unless a person has committed a crime their loved ones can not live with.

i would naturally assume that the person in question committed a serious crime that entails multiple years of incarceration that did not serve her purpose in life.

Yup, but for me if the girl refuses to marry the man, it's really her prerogative to which she's entitled. Her marrying him should not something that's forced...if she changes her mind, I wouldn't blame her. Marriage is a lifetime commitment, and the girl may have come to realiz she could not marry an ex-convict, never mind if the offense is a minor one. If the girl has already made up her mind, we just have to respect that decision. Marriage should be something voluntary, so no one can really force her--she could have her reason too.

i think i couldn't accept that if my BF goes in jail.i won't choose to marry him becausei don't want much trouble things come to me.yes,i care about my feeling from him.or maybe my love won't go soon,but i don't choose marry to him i think.