Love at first site

United States
May 17, 2009 12:26pm CST
Do you believe in love at first site? I think some do and some don't. I personally think that you have to get to know a person and start a friendship before jumping the gun and saying I love you. I think love should be patient, loveing and kind. All of those factors go with falling in love. I don't think you can really justify love as I think he is hot and I want him for my own. That is just pure lust too me. It is important to get a feel for the person that you want to be with. This is your future when you are looking into finding someone to be with. Think about your future before doing anything you might regret and thinking this is love at first site because you may have mistaken it with lust.
3 responses
@amirev777 (3911)
• India
24 May 09
hi yeah i agree with you-i dont think that there can be love at first sight-i believe there can only b lust at first site.love can happen gradually, over a period of time-as both get to know each other.i agree that frienship-esp close friendship can develop into love over a period of time.i cant say for women-but when men say that they have fallen in love at first site-what they are actually meaning is 'lust'-at least majority of them.
@stephcjh (32327)
• United States
18 May 09
I do not believe in love at first site. I do believe it just infatuation. It takes getting to know a person and becoming best friends first.
• United States
17 May 09
I did but now I'm not so sure. I still want to though.