What did you do when you break-up with your Bf/Gf ?

@chayen (90)
Philippines
May 18, 2009 10:54am CST
i usually listen to all the mellow musics i can find, eating a lot , cry more and less talking. i had a 2 years relationship before, but it didn't work out, we break up and go our separate ways. The only things i remember with Him, is the break up part and the aftermath. how about you, what are the things you usually do when you got your heart broken?
6 responses
@sugarfloss (2140)
• Malaysia
18 May 09
hello chayen!I've been through nine breakups and I can say it wasn't pretty alright. Most of it were ugly and I took time to recover. Try reading girlosophy:break up kit. And list down what you want to do for the next three months after your break up. That should do it. Heart break is temporary but life goes on :)
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@chayen (90)
• Philippines
18 May 09
hello sugarfloss, nine times does sound a lot for me. You must have a lot of experience in each of your relationship. i just hope it wont goes for the ten times. yeah. life must goes on.
@ericajoyce (1749)
• Philippines
28 May 09
Hello chayen. When I got my heart broken, I listen to mellow music and danceable music to bring my energy back. I surround myself with friends and family, and I prayed a lot.
@russso (1701)
• Philippines
27 May 09
I give myself one or two days to sulk and cry. After that, I work out every day. I go out every night. I constantly talk to friends to tell them what happened til I get numb. I consciously make effort not to cry because it is not worth it. I always tell myself that there is one very good reason why it had to end -- whatever that is, God is saving me from something utterly bad. And besides, we're not given problems that we cannot handle.
18 May 09
I was devastated and really heart-brokwn when my ex broke upw ith me last year after 5 years, I cried for days and days and I felt so sick and was crying so much that I didn't eat for about 3-4 days and I went out and drank way too much and ended up passing out in a local bar . . . I would nOT advise you to this, there are better way's to cope with things!
@soulist (2987)
• United States
18 May 09
If it is a recent break up I will go for a walk and think about things and try to re-assess my life and my goals for life. If it is a few months after the break up we get back in touch on work on being friends. Even if we didn't work out as a couple many of my past relationships work out as friends.
• United States
18 May 09
I got out of a 4 yr relationship and it took a lot of time for me to deal with it. In the begining I would cry a lot because there was a lot of times I should of left and I didn't. Then I found out he was with another girl so I would cry myself to sleep just thinking about what they were doing when I was in my bed alone. He didn't allow me to have any friends so I was truly by myself and alone. I would find ways to keep busy whether it would be just walking around the mall or going places I wanted to go that he didnt but I got through it.