Spoiler...maybe!
By ihsanul_aniq
@ihsanul_aniq (1118)
Malaysia
May 20, 2009 11:10am CST
Hell my friend. I would like to collect reasonable feedback from all of you regarding my problem. I'm on my research study under supervision of really good supervisor and nice person too. Early year, it looking good from the view of commitment and effort. Until one day, she (sorry not to mention earlier) declare that she fall in love with me. She's about my mother age and i just 26. From that day, everything goes wrong, not a single thing give a direction to the success of my study. I can't accept her and so do this personal matter into work bussiness. What would you do my friend?
2 responses
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
21 May 09
I would just kindly let her know that you are not comfortable with it and that it is distracting you from your work. Tell her you would like to be freinds with her only.
@ihsanul_aniq (1118)
• Malaysia
22 May 09
Somehow my friend, i afraid by doing so will make more worse than better, also quiet is not the best option though. Taking care with teenager problem or same level might be different from this...
@littlesleet (71)
• United States
20 May 09
change your supervisor!What you said here is a good enough reson already!
@ihsanul_aniq (1118)
• Malaysia
21 May 09
Most of the person who i refer to is suggesting the same thing. yeah, maybe it's the right decision after all, but you know what my friend, it's not easy to just let it go because once you decide to choose anyone who sghould become your supervisor, there are certain criteria will put into consideration, and ofcourse that will affecting the success of your study..
