Do you think that you deserve to be loved? What qualityes do you have?

@icesmile (7160)
Romania
May 23, 2009 2:43am CST
"I deserve to love me!"...but why i must love you? Love just happened or is all what we are and make to be loved? I can t change my eyes color, but i can change my way in what i make in life...for this i deserve somebody love me? So...we deserve love or we must to make something to make others love us? What i must to do to make somebody love me? What you must to do if you want my love or she.he love? Is a formula? Why some people deserve and got love, and other don t deserve and never got love? Where is difference?
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@angelsmummy (1696)
23 May 09
Everybody deserves to be loved, its abasic human right to be loved by somebody, weather thats famaily, friends or a partner. No-one doesnt deserve love! We all deserve love because we give it out, it doesnt matter what we have done with our lives as long as one person is loving you, thats all you need! (as well as food, shelter etc lol) =D
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
23 May 09
And if nowbady don t love us...this is fate? or our guilt?
23 May 09
There is always somebody that loves us, maybe from afar but everyone is loved by someone!
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
23 May 09
are you sure that everybody have somebody who love him? i know so many people who rally don t have any person to love them.
• United States
24 May 09
Oh, Icesmile! What complicated thinking you must do! I believe everybody deserves to be loved, if for no other reason than that they're part of the human race! Good people deserve it more than those who are evil, certainly. But we all need and want love, and deserve it, too. There's no formula for it, and no test we have to pass. But there's at least one someone out there for each of us!
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• United States
24 May 09
Needs can be a whole different thing. Many people need love from their parents and never get it (including me), or from kids who disappear from their lives, etc. Love is there for us, but our specific needs may not be addressed.
@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
24 May 09
hi, you know that i have a complicated mind, we need love, for sure...my question is..we will receive love from who we love too? no...
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@youless (112123)
• Guangzhou, China
24 May 09
Be sure I deserve to be loved. I am a single-minded person. I am loyal, trustworthy and I will never betray my love. I can be considerate and sacrificing. I love China
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
24 May 09
and China love you back? kidding
@psyche49f (2502)
• Philippines
25 May 09
Yup, everyone deserves to be loved, including me...I'm friendly, especially to people who I am acquainted so well, I care for people, I am a faithful friend, I listen to people's problems, and above all, I pray for others, not only my family, but people who I know need it the most. There are people who are unlovable because they are abusive of self and others, while others are healthy and are concerned not only of self, but also of others. I believe that since we cannot give what we don't have, people who are loved are very capable of loving others in return.
@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
25 May 09
hi, i am sure that you deserve love...but not all the time people who are nice, friendly, honest, loving, receive love..
• China
23 May 09
Good question, my friend. Everyone deserves to be loved, I agree. But it depends on the feeling of love . Maybe you have done a lot of things for someone , but he/she doesn't love you at all, that's common. And everyone has the right to love or not to love someone . You can't force yourself to love others or force others to love you. But personally speaking , if someone is good to me , I will be good to him/her ,too. My friend asked me whether I have a gf before . I said "No, because my family is poor , I have no money to support the love ." He then asked me if the girl loved your money . I couldn't answer. For somebody , you needn't do a lot of things to make he/she love you . But sometimes , you need to devote a lot to moving others ......
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• China
24 May 09
No, now I think the ture love needn't the supporting of money . I don't think money can buy love ,never. I think the feelings between lovers make they love each other. I am sorry to make you puzzled......
@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
23 May 09
Money to support love? Sorry, but i don t think that love need money.You can buy love?I don t think again. What i must to do to make somebody love me? what things? You heard about unconditional love? real love i mean, when you love somebody just because you love. to be devoting yes..i am agree, and to be faithful too, and don t lie too...but not to make things.
• Philippines
25 May 09
Of course I deserve to be loved. I don't why and I can not set the qualities for people to love me. I just doing the things I want to do and never set a qualification for anyone. I am like this because that what I am. I am myself. Many people are not talking to me as I don't talk to them. Many people are maybe not like me because I am lack of socializing. I can not socialize to anyone as I don't like. I don't know why. I am just happy to socialize to anyone who I want to socialize. I am not boastful and I am not on the top. Just being a silent and talk as I like. I don't why I am like me. I don't want to hurt people. I don't want also to be hurt. I just take a sit in a lone place until I found a one people to talk to. I am not a selfish, people just don't understand me. Until I found someone. . someone who knows me. someone who loves me. I am happy to be his wife.
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
25 May 09
I don t like to socialize to much too, i talk when i want say something, maybe is better to can talk will all peoples, but i like to talk just if i have something to say. I wish you to find a good husband who love you honestly, even is very hard in those days.
@albert2412 (1782)
• United States
23 May 09
I do think that I deserve love because I am a kind truthful person. I a, easy to get along with and try to be nice to everyone. One thing that I have found out in like is that there is no way to make someone else love you. Either they like you and love you or they do not. I try to love everyone and to be understanding. Perhaps it is phernomes that we give out from out body that makes other people like us. I do not know for sure.
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
24 May 09
HI, YOU KNOW HOW MUCH LOVE I DESERVE? all this world love...but this don t mean that i will receive this love too....i think that we never receive love as we deserve...love is so strange, really
@misshoney (973)
• Philippines
23 May 09
hello icesmile. what a question. of course everyone deserves to be loved. i don't have to list the qualities that makes me lovable here.
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
24 May 09
hi...yes, what a question...all is so complicated, and is so simple in same time... If we start all time discussions about love...we can t find the truth..this is a big problem
@cindyhxf (1446)
• China
23 May 09
i heard"Your personality determines your destiny! ".i think someone act well in love affair.they knew how to please their lovers.they are good at communication and know what their lovers want and know how to make them feel happy.but always have other kind of people in life.some people are not at all ,that is why they don't deserve to love i think.
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
23 May 09
you very right too...in a love affair, communication is very important, if this don t exist, love can bring only suffering.
@mimiang (3760)
• Philippines
23 May 09
Every one needs to be loved and everyone I think is entitled to be loved rightly.There are loves that are wrong you know.To love is to accept someone no matter what she/he is so I can't say reasons why I should be loved.To love is to belong.
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
23 May 09
no reasons, right
@meandmy3 (2227)
• United States
23 May 09
Everyone deserves to be loved and they should not have to do anything to earn that love. I love my husband because he is my husband, He loves me, I have no idea why because well I can be a witch (and you know what to do with the spelling of that) Why do some people not get love, some are not open to it and push others away. I think the saddest thing is a child who is not loved or does not feel loved. Every child deserves parents that love them and treat them in a loveing manner. I think that if that is not their biological parents then someone needs to step in. It breaks my heart to see and hear of children who are not loved and treated how they should be.
@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
24 May 09
love is here, is there...we must just share love
@geniustiger (1694)
• Philippines
23 May 09
I am because I am also loveable to anyone that likes my attitude. I know we cannot please everyone but I like many friends to love so that they will also love me.I am approachable, smiling, caring, respectful,ready to listen whatever you wanna say, humble and helpful to what I can do. I like this because I also wanted to be treated like this way to my peers, friends and company. I keep the saying " Do unto others what you want others to do unto you". Thats why I like many friends loved me also as I do to them.
@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
23 May 09
that is a right attitude, bet can t pleased all, even we try to be nice and polite....but about love..man-woman you must to do same?
@harryt123 (327)
• United States
24 May 09
I believe that everybody deserves to be loved and no what quality should justify this. We are all made to be unique and what attracts one to love another is a different story. We should all treat everyone equally and it's a good feeling when we are loved and cared for by our very own loved ones. There is no one formula for one to love another, love is something that just comes naturally.
@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
24 May 09
you very right...is not a formula...and i am sorry to say, not all time who we love, love us back
@KitchenK (39)
• Australia
24 May 09
I think everyone deserves love, but there are those who would indeed use that love for their own personal gain. It's a human right to be loved, and I think that peoples words and actions also stop people from loving them. Love isn't just a word, it's an emotion, it's sort of like the sun. It's around you every day but you never really notice it.
@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
24 May 09
love must to be a feeling, if is arround...we must feel it
• Canada
30 May 09
Everyone deserves to be loved. We don't have to sit here all day listing our qualifications, we just have to find the people that are best compatible with us. There are people out there for everyone, whether they are our platonic friends, or whether they're that one special person that we'll spend the rest of our lives with.
@Sandra1952 (6047)
• Spain
23 May 09
We all deserve to be loved, but sometimes we make choices which make it difficult for other people to love us. To be loveable, the only quality you really need is honesty. This shines through, and people who really get to know you will love you for it, whatever you happen to look like. There is an old saying that beauty is only skin deep, and it's very true. If you strive for a beautiful mind, you will have inner beauty. Shallow people are attracted to outer beauty, and who wants to share their lives with people who choose their friends and lovers on the basis of looks alone?
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
23 May 09
so, depend of our choice only...to make people love us..
@justmeh (188)
• Philippines
23 May 09
Everyone does deserved to be loved. Actually,there's nothing you need to do just to be loved by someone. Just be yourself. Whatever qualities a person has either bad or good it wouldn't matter to the person who loved you because love requires no reason and that's what you should remember. If you love him/her because of his/her incredible intelligence and talents or the beauty then you cannot call that LOVE. Do you know what is that? It's just a mere infatuation to someone.
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
23 May 09
good answer...we must to be just ourself. is very simple. Don t need to have special qualityes or money or a beatiful face...we must just be what we are.
• United States
23 May 09
I'm not sure I really understand. But I do know that God loved us so much that He sent His only begotten son to die for us to save us from our sins. That's true LOVE. God is love. Agape love, which means an unconditional love and concern for others. This is the kind of love God wants us to have. Do we deserve it? No. If you think you have to do something to make someone love you, are you sure you want that kind of love. Love is unconditional. The bottom line is If you sow love you will reap love.
@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
23 May 09
Everykind of love must to be unconditional...if is real love, you very right
• Malaysia
24 May 09
i don't think that i deserve anyones love coz i'm such a meanie..huhuhu... i love to bully my bros and i'm not a really a good child that's y i think i don't deserve love . but still my family still love me...hehehe... and i thank God for that