What is the best way to meet people?

United States
May 27, 2009 1:36pm CST
I am single and kind of looking, kind of not. I don't know where to meet new people without looking like an idiot. Help me out here.
4 responses
27 May 09
I know the feeling! I am single, kind of looking, kind of not and I know yourworry. I believe the best way to meet people is to do activities you like doing or try activities you would like to take up. This way you have more of a chance of meeting people you would like to hang out with.... this is my only suggestion
• United States
29 May 09
I mean i could easily get a girlfriend but that's not really the girl i wanna date. I wanna date someone with morals and that isn't throwing herself out there. Maybe i have too high of standards, idk.
@vingoze (50)
• Nigeria
27 May 09
i like to meet some cool girls too , but i have been going round facbook, but its not been easy.......please help
• United States
29 May 09
yeah im in the same boat as you man.
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
27 May 09
Firstly welcome to Mylot. In answer to your question a good way of meeting people is to join a club and share interests with like minded people. Or if you enjoy exercise, join a gym and sign up to the various classes they have and meet people. Sometimes work is a great place of meeting people and going for a drink afterwards. I know going to pubs and clubs on your own can be quite scary and daunting. I guess it's what you feel comfortable with. Some people meet others online, some go to dating agencies, some just meet by chance, you could be out one day and find someone special. I wish you luck. Try different places and see which feels most comfortable for you.
@pepinho (117)
• Slovak Republic
28 May 09
Hi you can meet new people everywhere around you have a lot of opportunities you can join some chats on the internet but this is one of the most dangerous ways because there are fake people but you can go to some club or hang out somewhere with your friends and i think you will meet somebody ineteresting for you. Just dont lose you hope and whats the most important is to be yourself and have fun. :)