Thank a lot who don t like my discussions.In this moment i lose my blue star

@icesmile (7160)
Romania
May 31, 2009 4:39am CST
My rate decrease,from 97/100 to 93/100. I am sure that who don t like my discussions, are happy now. I want to say, that i will be as i was until now, even somebody don t like my eyes. I was honest, and i will be honest in the future too. I really like this red star a lot, thanks again WHO DON T LIKE MY DISCUSSIONS. ANY WAY, I WILL NOT GIVE UP.
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13 responses
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
31 May 09
Hi there ice! Now you know what I am going to say don't you You don't keep the same colour clothes on all the time and seems like we change the colour of our star too Just don't take any notice of it and before you realise it will be back to where it was before. I have told you before that I admire you for sticking it out here even though Englsh is not your first language so keep going and don't look in that direction at all. I'll tell you when it gets back to blue again without you having to look every day Have fun that's all!
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
31 May 09
I will know because I will see it! What happened to your laughs ice? Have they gone with your blue too?
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
31 May 09
Hi, Diana how you will know when my star color will change again? I try to come here every day, if i can, any way...starts are just stars, nothing more. Any way, even i am little sad, this is life, maybe i must to do what i can and go on. i just ask myself why...but maybe i ll never know why, and if i ll find the true, what i can do ? nothing.
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
31 May 09
yes, today i am sad Diana, seems that even i am polite, and try to do my best, people don t like me.
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• Philippines
31 May 09
Hi there :) Like you I was affected by my ratings at first, but the ratio of those who give negative is small compared to those who give you positive. I earned my 9 star last week but it came down to 6 and now I'm doing my best to get my mylot reputation back. My advice would be to stay away from topics like religion and politics and any other controversial issues because most people would rate you negative there.
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
31 May 09
Is strange, i am not involved in religion politics sections, because i don t like to argue, but seems that are people who don t like my style, or they are just jealouse. Good luck for them too
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@beamsey (425)
• Philippines
31 May 09
Yes, people tend to rate you negative if you disagree with their opinions. Not everyone does it and even if mylot says it shouldn't be done, many still do.
• Philippines
31 May 09
I've also wished rating system would be removed just so to avoid bias but we can't do anything about it it's inevitable.. :) Maybe all I would suggest for you to do is to just be careful with what you post and try to be as polite as possible to avoid negative ratings. Or rather, just ignore them and keep posting quality responses :)
@sierras236 (2739)
• United States
31 May 09
I have made a few enemies but then I post in the political arena. You should be proud of your opinions. Don't change just because someone doesn't like what you say. The negative raters aren't really happy because your voice is still loud and clear. It is just petty revenge on their part. They only win when you give up. Keep up the honesty and keep speaking your mind.
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• United States
31 May 09
I so completely agree.
@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
31 May 09
When people will understand that we can t have same opinions? This is our personality, education, level, why i must to be nice if i want only say my opinion?
@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
31 May 09
hi Icesmile, do not worry, every body like your discussions, because you are selecting discussions on various subjects, really you are taking pains to put discussions on my lot, you are selecting different subjects, i do not know may some body did not like your discussions, but i like your discussions, and i respond at least one discussion, which i like, i support you , and you will achieve your rate up to 100 percent soon in my lot, wish you all the best
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• United States
31 May 09
Don't spend too much time worrying about it. Sometimes, people will rate you negatively for what seems like no reason, and I'm under the impression that most mylotters don't really care as much. It's just one of those unavoidable things.
@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
31 May 09
Hi, both of you are right, is not a big deal..i just wonder why?
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@anniefannie (1737)
• United States
9 Jun 09
i don't know why you would loose your star i give you a good rating all time maybe you will get it back soon. don't worry over it you can't please every body all the time
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
9 Jun 09
you very right, but you know...sometimes this little star show us if people like us or not...any way, seems that my rate is same,
@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
31 May 09
Shoot, I have never had anything but a 4 in my star lol. I guess I am not all that popular here, but that is ok, as I am not running a popular contest anyway. There are some that will give you a negative as they are probably negative throughout their life anyway. I have never really worried about my rating, as it isn't all that important in here. I am here to have fun, and I will continue to do so, in spite of my ratings. If it goes up, great, but if it doesn't then fine. I will probably never ever have a red star, but who really cares. If I tried to be popular it just wouldn't happen. So, I just do my best and let the chips fall where they may. Once people get to know me, they will find out, I am a good person, and I say what I mean and stick with it. We should all be able to express our opinions no matter what and if others don't agree, then so be it. What a world this would be if we all agreed on the same things. Well, good luck to you and happy mylotting.
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
31 May 09
You know i don t care about this damn color star, i am sorry just because i try to do my best...and i know for sure that who rate us negativly...are weak people, who can t be active because they know something about life, they like just when we are sad...
@boogerman (1544)
• Philippines
31 May 09
Hello my friend! Well, I viewed your profile and take a look on your discussions and they were nice, no reason to get negative ratings. Maybe the trolls had attacked you by giving negative rating. Just keep on what you are doing and you will notice soon that you had already recovered your reputation and also the blue star. Happy mylotting!
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
31 May 09
Maybe trolls have a problem with me...what are trolls? Who they are?Just weak people who don t have something to say, and try just to be jerks.
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@John4Christ (1597)
• India
1 Jun 09
yeah same happened to me......i was on my red star when i reached my 150 posts or something.......and i responded to one of the discussions and i gave an honest reply......the other day i saw it came to 8 and then it went down to 7........now i am back on 8 and hopefully will remain like this for sometimes......some people can be such spoil sport........but as you rightly say even i would be the way i am.....no matter how people rate you...... Have a nice day !!!!
• Philippines
1 Jun 09
Hi john the christ im a newbie here.This can teaCh us alot,because as we said you cant please everybody as long as you do what you think is right and you didn0t hurt anybody for your own sake we dont have to care abouT our rating here because crab mentality is just around the corner if they saw you on top they will try their best to pull you d0wn all we have to do keep our faith alive and still post a relevant and important topic because if they saw you posting important topic they will realize s0mehow that what youVe reaCh here is you deserve for that,,keep it up ok.
• Philippines
1 Jun 09
Hi john the christ im a newbie here.This can teaCh us alot,because as we said you cant please everybody as long as you do what you think is right and you didn0t hurt anybody for your own sake we dont have to care abouT our rating here because crab mentality is just around the corner if they saw you on top they will try their best to pull you d0wn all we have to do keep our faith alive and still post a relevant and important topic because if they saw you posting important topic they will realize s0mehow that what youVe reaCh here is you deserve for that,,keep it up ok.
@beamsey (425)
• Philippines
31 May 09
I feel for you. My star rating also went down. I started with an 8. Then it increased to 9. Then yesterday to an 8 again and now, to a 7. (I just have to put a smiley. I can finally use it!) I think sometimes, our responses are misunderstood. It's okay though. I'm sure our star ratings will go up again in time. :) Let's just try our best to post quality responses and help other mylotters. :) Goodluck!
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
31 May 09
No problem, if i have just +, maybe people ignore me, if i have - too, mean that my discussion "touch" some people. Good luck for you too
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@dhawanbm (3705)
• India
31 May 09
I dont understand the changing colour of your star means anything, did you lose anything by decreased rating where is it denoted on the profile its there only, but its icysmile nice!
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
31 May 09
You right, anything, i don t lost anything, maybe just trust in my work here...no matter. thank you
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@tomcat23 (622)
• Old Forge, Pennsylvania
9 Jun 09
Honesty is the best policy and a person should not be afraid to speak their minds, nor their hearts. If everyone always shared the same opinion, the same thoughts and the same idea, then where would that leave us when it comes to having a discussion. You have to also realize people aren't always going to agree with what you say, sometimes they may not like what you have to say, but that's life and its something we live with everyday. Its what makes each of us unique and always remember, nobody is perfect!!! Happy Mylotting!!!
• China
1 Jun 09
ignore that and keep doing... franking speaking , i am a newbie..not know how to aviod rate decrease.. Sorry..
@tom99x (25)
• China
1 Jun 09
oh, adhere to good,either do not give up do you know?