Do you give offensive replies..............
By harshrosicky
@harshrosicky (626)
India
June 1, 2009 5:31am CST
...even if you don't mean to. Many times i come across disscusions and i am feeling so bored that time that i give an offensive reply even if i dont mean that.....I think i do that because then i have something to look forward to......
I was in the same mood lately and saw a discussion in which the person had said that she names her electronic gadgets......normal thing to do..........okay not that normal but its okay..........i called her a wierdo....and wrote a lot of rubbish.......
Then I found myself egarly waiting for her comment....i knew it would be bad.....stil wanted to hear her thoughts and bad mouth her again.........make it pretty exciting......but she didn't had any thoughts.....ruined my day..........
I know its bad but what do i do .......holidays going on and i am utterly bored..
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16 responses
@med889 (5941)
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1 Jun 09
Hello dear, first of all you must be very careful when You answer like this because it goes against the guidelines of mylot and your earnings can decreased so be polite with others, it is not because you mood is off that you should answwer like this to someone. And yeah you have used many punctuations which is again the guidelines of mylot. I suggest you go and check the guidelines.
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@harshrosicky (626)
• India
1 Jun 09
Now Don't call me pathetic.....careful there mate you breaking the guideline...
P.S. i wasn't mocking you med889.....
P.S. i am serious about the previous P.S.
@harshrosicky (626)
• India
1 Jun 09
Never mind...i am not here for money....have been always kinda rule breaker....in this case "GUIDELINES BREAKER"......The last thing my eyes go upon is how much money i got......But you seem to an unusually good girl or you being good just for the money........Whats your name?
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@ellie333 (21016)
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1 Jun 09
Hi Harshrosicky, No I have never done this, even if I disagree with something I will do it in a polite manner although if someone comes into one of my discussions with sarcastic or comments I won't hold back in responding to them in a similar way. Huggles. Ellie :D
@harshrosicky (626)
• India
2 Jun 09
I also use the polite way.....but i am talking about when i am getting bored and want some excitment in life.........what to do then........and a piece of advice "politiness is addictive......kills you many a times"
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
2 Jun 09
That's terrible. I don't name call Even when I am angry with a response.I think it is a low, and useless exercise.There are ways to disagree Without making the other person feel small or stupid. Everyone Has a right to their opinion.I hate bullies.
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
3 Jun 09
No I don't. Being bored doesn't give you the right to be rude and hurt people's feelings.Even whe I disagree I am as polite as I can be.There is No reason to be rude.
@harshrosicky (626)
• India
3 Jun 09
Thats not the problem.....i told you even if i agree....i am so bored that i disagree and in a rude way......do you get me......
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@harshrosicky (626)
• India
1 Jun 09
See this is what i was talking about........You have the same problem as me but in a weirder sense.......You tried to give an offensive reply but I am feeling like asking your address ....so that i could laugh at your face......
SORRY NO OFFENCE BUT THAT RHYME THING WILL KEEP ME LAUGHING FOR DAYS....THANK YOU FOR SUCH A WONDERFUL MOMENT...
)@harshrosicky (626)
• India
1 Jun 09
ooooooo How intelligent............Oh man you starting to feel proud....hold it there...Okay i'll Explain you....me asking you address was just an expression....and me calling you intelligent was me being sarcastic......I know you'll say "I knew it ...you fool.." Save it..
@savypat (20216)
• United States
1 Jun 09
You might want to find some new games to play. I know when I get an offensive reply
the delete button is the first thing I do after I find out if that person is on my friends list. If so I make hit the delete button there also. Life is to short for me to put up with someones silly bad mouthed games.
@harshrosicky (626)
• India
1 Jun 09
You should try it.......really improves your vocabulary........
@BlueGoblin (1829)
• United States
1 Jun 09
Yes. I make offensive replies and is a result of being in a bad mood or the result of taking offense to what a person wrote. I feel bad for writing angry but it won't stop me from voicing my opinion in the future. Once you let someone stop you from voicing your opinion they have won. You should never be ashamed of your opinion.
@Anora_Eldorath (6028)
• United States
3 Jun 09
You can provide an intelligent truthful opinion without being mean spirited or offensive. It's quite easy to do, most on Mylot do it daily especially in the more controversial areas of the forum board. I agree with the others that you need to be very mindful of TOS before you end up with no Mylot account.
Namaste-Anora
@harshrosicky (626)
• India
2 Jun 09
Yeah we should always give true opinions .......and not care about getting a good response mark.....or sometimes we could care but we should let the feelings roll.,
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
2 Jun 09
you may eventually get kicked off of here for that, people have been kicked off before. Have you ever stopped to think that while it might be fun for you, it is not for the other person and you are hurting their feelings?
@harshrosicky (626)
• India
2 Jun 09
You don't get me.......i know what you are saying....thats why i have started this disscusion.......asking you for a solution....and instead you are telling me ...the things i have accepted....
@spicysweetie21 (2573)
• United States
2 Jun 09
I guess i have been offensive to some people that i reply to in the political topics, one person i don't really care any more if im offensive to them, but some people i guess i shouldn't be so rude to but hey its all on touchy subjects so it doesnt make me a b witch i dont think
@harshrosicky (626)
• India
2 Jun 09
you kow the pic is cobain's but many have said ...i have the same hair-style and all and play too...many say i look like him...thanks or the reply.
@Anora_Eldorath (6028)
• United States
3 Jun 09
Harsh-
No, can't say that I do. I'm never bored, and I take what I write very seriously so I try to make sure to say what I mean, and mean what I say. I think it's very mean spirited to do anything other, and to be very honest it sounds like you owe this person an apology for being mean spirited. Perhaps she hasn't come back because she was hurt by what you said, or wrote you off as a mean person.
I would think that if you are that bored, you could better use your time making meaningful contributions to Mylot, or go and enjoy your holiday taking in the sites around you.
Namaste-Anora
@harshrosicky (626)
• India
3 Jun 09
I already did apalogise......i realized that i did wrong.....and thanks for the reply.......
and Namaste
@shibham (16977)
• India
2 Jun 09
don't mind there, u have done wrong. don't be so offensive. it's better to creat a relation than break. it's hard also to create relation than break. try to avoid those discussions which make u bored and search an another which are supportive to your thoughts. there are many good discussions in mylot. good luck friend.
@harshrosicky (626)
• India
3 Jun 09
Actually this is my was of creating relation.........we "bad-mouthers" have a league of ours......I don't feel bad when someone badmouths me.....if it is good i appreciate it....and i don't wanna friend someone so weak who starts crying if someone unknown said something to her or him...
@angelajoy (1825)
• Philippines
2 Jun 09
I don't give offensive answers (at least, I hope I don't). I try to be as tactful as possible, but sometimes I find it very hard to do so when I am really frustrated with what the person is saying.
@harshrosicky (626)
• India
2 Jun 09
You get frustrated ..i get bored.....nearly same....thanks for the reply....
@kelly_hello (132)
• China
2 Jun 09
Till now do not give offensive reply yet,
i don't prefer to do that......
boring discuss will ignore directly..
@harshrosicky (626)
• India
2 Jun 09
You have just started mate.......all excited and fired up....you'll get me after a month...or maybe not.....thanks for the reply
@glesil_00 (1142)
• Philippines
1 Jun 09
I never had an offensive replies to any discussions yet. If i feel bore i do not respond.
@harshrosicky (626)
• India
1 Jun 09
See that makes the difference between 92 replies and 92 hundred replies.......We have to find a way mate ...so that we can beat these 1000 posters....
@drewsproductions (73)
• United States
1 Jun 09
Being rude on here isn't any fun!
Especially for the person recieveing it!
Would you suddenly like to get a comment that says your the biggest stupid most retarded unintelligent piece of rubbish in the whole god-saken earth!
That would ruin my day! Very badly:(
But I would kill the person after! If you do decided to do it use a "ninja" account:D
@harshrosicky (626)
• India
2 Jun 09
It all depends upon the state of mind.......i am always fond of a good fight over net.....its not serious....i have made many friends on networking sites.....abuse each other.....then become friends....Its like people like me have a league....we fight for a week and then if find the counter-part strong....we start praising...and eventually friends
