I was accused for privacy invasion.....How would you feel in this situation?

Yes I was actually talking about helscream discussion. hehe.. So you mean your not her girlfriend? Lolz.. How come your discussion is like connected to each other.. Haha.. She was talking about her girlfriend invading her privacy then an hour after that you came with this discussion.. haha.. that's why I though your her girlfriend . Hehe.. Sorry for that..

Girlfriend Please check my profile. I am a guy not a girl. I think you are talking about Helscream's discussion. I replied there also. And i don't know my GF's password so there is no way i can log in to her YM. It is the lack of trust he has on me. Otherwise she would have think that the one who loves her would not do anything which will give her trouble. And again i am a guy

Hmmm. Now you know i am not a girl.

What Iwas saying was theif your girlfriend and HellScream BOTH have problems on the same day - maybe it is a problem with YM. I hope you will be able to sort things out between you and your girlfriend dark

My YM is ok and have no problem and i have checked it. I don't know with her. And thanks for the wishes mys d. I need that.

Hi mys d, i was expecting you to be here. You may be referring to this discussion http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/2026016.aspx Well that's his problem and mine is different since i am the one who is accused. And there is nothing wrong in my YM mys d and i am sure of that. The most important thing is i even don't know her password so how can i invade her privacy? I know trusting someone take a lot. But i can say that among all my relatives and friends or anyone around me i would be the one who can be trusted among all. But there is nothing if the person who i love with my heart and soul can not trust me and just blames me.

I gave her proof that i was not the one who did this. She may have set the option of not saving the files on archive. And when she did not see those files she just blamed me for that. Well she does not trust me totally that's what i know. Though she did not tell me that directly but i know it from her expressions. But i have no doubt on her love. She loves me the way i love her. But her sayings are making me think the other way around. Just so disappointed with what she did to me. She broke me this time. I don't know what she is going to do. But i gave the proof that it was not me who did this. The rest is up to her. I let her decide.

That is the best thing you can do. Arguing further doesn't serve the purpose. It will only prolong confrontation which is unhealthy for love to prosper.

I gave my proof of innocence on this. And she would see it. But i don't know where this will take her. Still her sayings roaming in to my mind "WHERE THERE IS NOT TRUST THERE IS NO LOVE". I don't believe in this but she believes it. That's what i am worried about now.

Hope she realizes soon enough that you aren't the one that deleted her YM details. Don't worry so much bro, let's hope things will be fine for you soon.

Thanks for your wishes friend.

I trust her totally but she does not. Well i can not help it if she does not trust me. This is what i am supposed to get i guess.

Well there is nothing i hide from my GF and expect the same from her. But if she keeps her distance from me then there is nothing i could not do. Well if i look like this then i am on your bfs situation. She may think that i am doing this to her when i am not. If i want to know anything i ask her and never try to know forcibly. I never stop her from anything. But still there is trust she lacks on me. I have to go on with it. There is nothing i can do. I wish your bf learns to trust you. And one thing i want to tell you that share everything with your bf. That way he may feel better and understand you more. I can say that from my view because . This is my first love so you can also ignore this since i have many things to experience.

Well you said it very nicely. And i think it is how she thinks. I trust her completely but she is not able to trust me. Sad to say but i am not good enough.

She told me that she loves me as i am. But if i want to give her a better me then is it wrong? For me there is nothing enough. I would always want to give her more.

i see that you really love your gf for a person always sees the best in the person we really love to the point where we feel we are not good enough for them. that is not true. they chose to love us because we have something they don't. that in itself, is good enough. if it is good enough for somebody we love and who loves us then it should be good enough for us.

Well i know she is not able to trust me totally while i am totally honest with her. And i don't hide anything from her. From her side she thinks trust is necessary for love but i don't think so. And that's what made me sad that she does not trust me and is there any love left for me after that? And from my side i love her enough so that i will never let her go. Whatever she does i won't ever break the relationship. But i don't know about her. I feel stranger because she hides things from me. And refuse to tell me if i ask. Well thank you for your wishes. I hope she learns to trust me someday and don't hide things from me.

when trust is lost, very little is there in relationship - This way my GF thinks. But i don't think so. Love should not be relying on anything. And i think you are talking about helscream's discussion. Well it's a coincidence that we started the similar discussion the same day.lol

Hello darksorrow, I am glad to know that I helped you a bit. Some people like to keep everything to themselves. I am one of those people. I don't like people to know too much about me but at the same time I want to be loved and to love someone. My principle in this matter is simple (at least to me) - I keep secret if I know that my loved one can't accept it. If only I tell the truth and it will make me distance from my love one, I rather keep it with me forever and lead a happy life. No one gets hurt for that. Maybe your girlfriend is not ready for a deeper 'intrusion' in her life because she used to that kind of life and sorry for the word that I used here to explain that. It is good that you try to get to know her better and you should keep trying to know her. At least you will know which she likes and which she doesn't. Being in an argument with a loved one is something hard when your feelings towards here are above everything!

Hello gr8life, i know there are many of my mistakes. I can not control myself when i am sad or angry. And i do things which i never intend to do. I was very sad because how could she think i will invade her privacy and do something which will give her trouble. I can never imagine to do that to her. And i always try to know her more but she does not let me. Even goes with a safe answer. She knows that it makes me sad when later i come to know about it. But still she does it. She is not able to trust me. I don't know if she ever will. I always ask her many things so i don't do those which will make her sad. I ask her so i can improve myself for her so she can get a better me. But she never gives me the chance and hides things from me. May be this is the way girls are supposed to be. This is my first time i am in such a deep relationship. And i always try to be a better person to her knowing i have many lacking. But she has to give me the chance to do so. And i know we have differences. I can accept that. I can accept anything and even anything which is very bad from her. But if she keeps her distance from me then i can't accept that. Thanks for your wishes gr8life. Your response was very helpful for me. All your suggestions gave peace to me. Thank you again.

Actually she believes this no trust= no love. It's her words. And she was so sad because she wanted to keep our conversations as treasure. That's why she was so sad. Well everything is fine between us now.

I'm glad things are better and that that was her reason for being upset.

Well i gave her the reason why she does not have those messages in her archive. And i think she will get all of them back. I think i don't deserve her because i was not good enough to earn her trust. I am not good enough who could she rely on. And i don't know if i have the potential to be a cheater. Because i never tried that. I will never try to cheat anyone. That goes against my ego to cheat someone. Have a nice day.

Yeah. I was not giving time and expecting too much too early. Well i have improved myself the other way around and she won't have any complain on me. And what do you think after reading this will she be able to TRUST me? Anyways glad to know you are a guy otherwise everyone was thinking you are my GF.

well thats good to know from that experience you learn to grow up a little more each day bro sometimes in mens life one has to grow in order for them to be mature on things keep it up and theres still a long way to go you only just begun my friend the road ahead is bumpy be sure to wear seat belt. yeah right I was laughing so hard when I see your discussion right now and to think you made this last week... I think we are soul friends..... thanks God I am not a girl or else they would surely think I am your girls dont want that to happened

I love her enough so such kinds of pains won't be able to make me leave her. She is my first love and i love her from the depth of my heart. I will never leave her for any reason or anything bad she does to me. Well friend it's sad your relationship ended badly. Mine won't be the case, at least not from my side. Thanks for your wishes.