How to ask her out?

@diamania (7037)
Netherlands
June 3, 2009 3:44pm CST
I would like to ask a classmate to go to the cinema but I am not sure how I should do this, how I should 'bring' her that question. Do you have any tips for me?
5 responses
@eLsMarie (4148)
• Philippines
14 Jun 09
well it would be best to ask her personally. there's no harm in trying. :) if she rejects, at least you tried.:)
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@diamania (7037)
• Netherlands
14 Jun 09
I'm definitely going to try that but she didn't feel too well the previous days. I don't dare asking her on a bad day.
@bird123 (10526)
• United States
4 Jun 09
No guts no glory. Jump in and just start swimming. There is no right or wrong. What is the worst that could happen? She say no?? You can always ask again latter. If you think a girl will never change her mind, you are wrong. Besides clumsy and awkward sometimes works better that smooth.
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@diamania (7037)
• Netherlands
4 Jun 09
I am clumsy all the way so being clumsy won't be the problem here hehe. Anyway friends I sat next to her in class and I touched her leg slightly once just before the school day was over and she didn't say anything and went to home without saying good bye or something. Is she just timid? Or mad, but that would be weird because if she's mad she would react on me touching her leg, right?
@russso (1701)
• Philippines
4 Jun 09
When the two of you are left alone, ask her first if she's doing anything on this particular day. Then finally, ask her if she'd want to watch a movie with you. Weeee. Goodluck!
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@diamania (7037)
• Netherlands
14 Jun 09
Indeed we must absolutely be alone otherwise I won't even dare to ask her. And she wouldn't dare to say yes for sure.
@steelkhan (179)
• Sharjah, United Arab Emirates
3 Jun 09
the simplest thing to do is ask her but try to do it in private some time when you ask a question like this in front of school friends you will get a no.
@steelkhan (179)
• Sharjah, United Arab Emirates
19 Jun 09
hello friend i was wondering what happend to you, did you ask her out or not ? and if you asked her what happend, what did she say ?
@diamania (7037)
• Netherlands
19 Jun 09
I did talk a bit with her alone in a relaxed mood. I gave her a few signs that I a interested in her but I didn't ask her out. She texted me an hour ago asking me where I was at school, so she thinks about me and that's cool. Thanks for your interest.
• Sharjah, United Arab Emirates
20 Jun 09
no need for thanks friend, its very good that she texted you, now is the time you can ask her about the movie but try to ask her when you too are alone.
• Sharjah, United Arab Emirates
20 Jun 09
i am sorry in excitement i forgot about why did she texted you first ask her why did she want to know where you are is there somthing she wants to talk to you about (lets hope she wants to be with you), after that you can ask her about the movie.