Dop you think that man who cry are not real man? you saw a man who cry?

@icesmile (7172)
Romania
June 4, 2009 2:19pm CST
I remember about my father, every time when was hard times, or we lose somebody who we loved, he have few tears in his eyes, but never let us to see that he cry, and all time he hide, don t let us see him All time i wonder why he hide? Do you think that man who can cry in hard moments are not real man? Do you see a man who cry because of love? Can a man to be so sensitive and cry for who he love more?
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25 responses
• China
8 Jun 09
i never saw my father cry,so i ever thought my dad didn't learn how to cry at my childhood,but now i have come to learn that it is real not easy to cry for real man,i have seen choke with sobs for man when they saw some moved moment on tv,i also didn't see my hubby's tears except only one time,at that time,i was moved by my hubby deeply.
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@underdogtoo (9600)
• Philippines
8 Jun 09
I have cried a few times and it is all due to frustration. I cried because I could not do anything about it. I am a man and I don't think it is unmanly to cry but I don't do it very often because I am not a crybaby. Cheers!!
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• Philippines
7 Jun 09
We are aware of the idea that " Big boys don't cry" This is the kind of thinking that was imposed to the human race. Men should be tough at all situations for they are the pillars of strength... but If they did this... I'm confident enough to say that they are man enough to show their true feelingS and they are brave enough not to mind what others might think about them... "big boy's don't cry... but REAL MEN DO!" That's all! (this principle doesn't apply to FAKERS)
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@jcc51189 (78)
• United States
5 Jun 09
I am a man who cries....and cries easily under difficult circumstances. This is especially so if it involves love. I do not think that crying makes me less of a man. I actually think that it shows that I am man enough, and secure enough with my masculinity, that showing emotions does not make me feel less masculine. It is a normal human emotion so why hold it in?
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• Philippines
4 Jun 09
I highly respect a man that cries and i don't declare them gay because they are crying. Man will have a difficulty to show their emotion. But to see that a man cries is somewhat breaking my heart. If a man cries, then that means it was really hurtful, painful to accept for him about a certain circumstance that came. Anyway a man is still human, so i don't think any man has never cried all his life time. A man who cries is manly to me, as long as he don't whine loud and roll over the floor . A man may be somewhat sensitive in His Spiritual things when He cries. Happy Mylotting!
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• Canada
14 Oct 09
I don't think there is any problem with men who cry. i think it's important that both genders should be able to express their emotions in a way that will help them. I think that there are too many violent men, because as men they were not taught how to properly deal with their emotions.
• United States
5 Jun 09
There is absolutly nothign wrong with a man who cries. If you see a man crying than chances are that he is really really really hurt and his friends are not able to help him. And there is nothign wrong with men not crying. From the time a man is ayoung boy his father has more than likley told him that; MEN DON'T CRY. This is because his father told him that and his father before him and so on.
@leyisa (487)
• Canada
5 Jun 09
all humans cry - whether male or female...i have seen my father cry on a number of occasions..it has nothinh to do with being a man...it has to do with being human and having emotions...i think in society men are suppose to be the strongs ones...that is why ppl think its wierd when men cry...i think its perfectly ok... i've seen my hubby cry as well...
@Caylaxx (99)
5 Jun 09
I think that everyone should be able to cry. Crying is good as it lets out our emotions, it is very sexist if we say that men should not cry as it makes them less masculine. They have feelings too just like women.
@because (62)
• China
5 Jun 09
i think that man who can cry in hard moments are also real man,maybe man is too tired,who has the right to cry.
• Philippines
5 Jun 09
It takes a lot of courage to cry in public. I think what makes a man less of a man is a "whiny" sort of cry, like crying when you can't have it your way for example. But crying during sensitive times does not make any man any less i think.
• Philippines
5 Jun 09
Hello there. In my own opinion, a man who cries is a real man. For me, he who cries acknowledges that he has feelings too, that he can still feel pain even if men are known to be stronger than women, and that he is just like any human who gets affected by things too. I have seen men crying, and I admire them because they know that they feel pain and they are not afraid on showing it. It is very rare to see a very sensitive guy that cries a lot. I have seen men crying but not as much as women do.
@kissie34 (2296)
• Philippines
5 Jun 09
Many people always misinterpret when a man cry. They said that only girls and gays are the one who cry but I don't believe the same way. For me, when someone cry it only means that she/he is just expressing the pain or joy that he/she feels. I had saw many man who cry when they feel sad or too much happiness and I don't think them as not being real man. I know that if they'll keep it in their heart they won't be able to feel free and satisfied. Besides, crying is good because it clean our eyes from dirt.
@abanerji (1026)
• India
5 Jun 09
men too have the rights to cry and release their hidden emotions. when people cry they rellease their emotions and feel lighter from within. to much of crying and crying for little things is not good from even women. but at ocassions when the things are in the wrost situation then one must cry. cry does not solve the problem but it surely helps you feel better. so men can also cry out their grief.
@vivianchen (2648)
• China
5 Jun 09
Man meaning strong! I think that's the reason why your father hide from you. Man don't cry in public but girls can. I cried when i am sad or moved. But my boyfriend cries too. He only let me know and cry in my shoulder, i don't think that means he is not a real man. My boyfriend cries when he saw the moved story or movies, i think that's other side of a real man!
@zzyw87 (1260)
• Philippines
5 Jun 09
I think men who cry are still real men. How they are considered as real men matters not if he cries. Rather, what makes a man a real man is being responsible, hardworking, honest, loyal, and trustworthy. My boyfriend cried in the past in front of me and I still have a high opinion of him because he is a good man. Also, crying can help relieve some of the hurt, pain, or stress one feels inside. It is good to cry once in a while.
• Indonesia
5 Jun 09
i think its normal for human to cry, it doesnt matter old, young, man, woman, its natural to cry, i ever saw man who cry because his life problem, its normal i dont blame his, actually i ever cry when i face the problem, but i must hide it, i dont want naybody know about its. my problem is mine
@modstar (9612)
• Philippines
5 Jun 09
Even real men cry. Crying is the action which came from emotions that are repressed then manifested through crying. It should work for all human and not for women alone. Men can cry too and it doesn't mean they are gay. It simply means they cannot hold on any longer emotions like grief, anger and many more which triggers crying. It's a basic fact of life that humans cry and that includes men.
@anniefannie (1743)
• United States
5 Jun 09
i believe a man crying is showing his feelings and there are so many that won't. i think cause they think it is a weak thing but they are wrong.nothing wrong in showing your feelings in that way.
@jugsjugs (13045)
4 Jun 09
I have only ever seen three men cry.I saw my dad cry when he was told he was going to die which is understandable.I have also seen two other men cry over women breaking up with them and relatonships.I think alot of men try not to cry but when they have too stronger feelings they can not help themselves.