Do they know ALL our secrets?

@x_Jo_x (1040)
June 6, 2009 1:53pm CST
Do we share all our secrets with our best friends? Do we trust them with everything? How well do they really know us and how well do we know them? Could we go to them in our deepest hour of need? Or do we all have things that even the people closest to us don't know? What is everyones thoughts on this?
5 responses
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
7 Jun 09
I have to admit that I do keep some things to myself, only because my friends wouldn't understand, I have tried them on various subjects in the past and they haven't shown me understanding, for example I don't tell my best friends that I see a counselor because when I raised the issue before they poured scorn on the idea so I have never told them, not that I am ashamed, the counseling is very helpful for me but to some they think counseling is wrong and unnecessary, so to keep the peace I keep quiet about it.
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@x_Jo_x (1040)
7 Jun 09
Ahh yeah i understand. I guess some things like that are best. I dont see why your friends should be judgemental! There is absolutly nothing wrong with counseling, its just all about having someone impartial to talk to about issues, and someone who has a better understanding of the problem at hand. Very good i think, it has been recomended to me several times. I havent yet been, but that isnt because i dont think it will do any good.
@Jezebella (1446)
• United States
6 Jun 09
I do trust my best friend with everything. She knows pretty much everything about me and I know I can trust her to tell her things and know she has my best interest at heart. I trust her and know she trusts me with her secrets.
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@x_Jo_x (1040)
6 Jun 09
Thats good! For a while when i was younger i kept secrets like about boys i liked from my best friend, purely because i was shy about it. But now i feel like i can be totally open with mine and love her to pieces. I'd trust her with anything
@Mathiaes (91)
• Denmark
7 Jun 09
I do have some secrets that I don't tell anybody, simply because I know that sometimes everybody talks over themself with someones problems, I know that's a human failure, but because of that I don't want to tell all my secrets to my friends
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@doggyhouz (548)
• United States
6 Jun 09
I share my secrets with my better half. My girlfriend usually someone that isnt really close to he person imma about to talk about. I share almost everthing with my gf
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@x_Jo_x (1040)
6 Jun 09
Aww thats good. Thats very important in a relationship i think, to be able to share things with each other
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
17 Jul 10
Yes i do, i share all secrets!