Do you like to have many brothers and sisters or you like to be only one?

@icesmile (7160)
Romania
June 10, 2009 5:14am CST
How many brothers and sister do you have? Are you in good relations with they? You are elder brother? Will you help your brothers and sisters if they need? Or they help you if you need? Or you just don t like to be in good relation with they, and everybody must to be with his family? hus/wife and your kids i mean?
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19 responses
• Malaysia
11 Jun 09
I have brothers and sister since young. So I would prefer to have more brothers and sisters. The relationship among our siblings are very good. They will support me either mentally or physically. This is the reason for me to have siblings. If the fate that the siblings are not nice, then I can say nothing.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
11 Jun 09
I have one elder brother. I have good relation with him all throughout. Actually it is some advantage of being youngest in family.
• United States
11 Jun 09
i am the oldest. i am female. i love my brother and sister beyond what i can say. they help and support me in any way they can and i try to do the same for them. i don't know what it would be like to be an only child, i only know what i have lived, and i am glad that i have my brother and sister.
• China
11 Jun 09
I have a elder sister.I have to admit the current relation between us is not so perfect or is not like my previous expected.Although she cares me much all the time,it seems like thers is a gap between us.In fact,she is just 5 years older than me.I mean,our thoughts is extremely different.Maybe it's because she has been working for years,but I'm still study in a university and has not enter the society yet.So she is a bit of sophisticated but I'm tend to be more idealization.I don't know if she felt the changes between us,as we are also care and help each other like the previous days.
@guixiu81 (30)
• China
11 Jun 09
Oh,I have one brother who is just 20 minutes older than me, we are live together from our born, of course we have good relations with each other, If he needs my help, surely i will help him. Yes,I think everybody must be with hus/wife and kids if you have.
• China
11 Jun 09
I don't have brothers or sisters.But I really want one!only elder one~^^whenIwas little I was jealous of my classmates who have elderbrothersor sisters.Cause their elders always buy toys for them. And parents generally love the younger one more than the elder.So I really want either elder brothers or sisters !
@Vivianh (331)
• China
10 Jun 09
I wish I have a brother but ,but just myself,no one else.If so,I think we'll be good because that's my dream.
@dodo19 (47082)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
10 Jun 09
I only have one younger sister. Although she's five years younger, I really don't remember what it was like to be an only child. I really don't have many memories, before I was five, before my sister was born. We fight, just like any other sibling. We're not really close though.
@zhdy89 (301)
• China
10 Jun 09
I have one brother and one sister.They usually have some things to contact with me,otherwise,just I call them to greetings.I am just the middle one.I can help them do my best if they need,but I can only face all the troubles alone,they can say not ability to help me.I'd like to be in good relation with them,unfortunately,it is still a dream.My son and I are more like friends,he always likes to tease me laugh.We live very happy.
@Tuanshun (138)
• China
10 Jun 09
we are four siblings in our family, one elder sister and two elder brother. I like my siblings, and there are lot of fun in our family, cos i'm the youngest, they used to protect me from other people's bullying. This felt good for me. And i used to get help or surport from them. I still remembered my second elder brother saved my life when we were swimming and i was drawning cos i couldnot swim then. I'm really appreciated for that. My second elder brother gave me a lot of money for my school fees. He is as well my best friend, I love him. Now, he is a father of two children, wish him and his family live happily in life. My eldest brother and my sister also gave me a lot and much useful advice and surport in my life, thank you all, I'll remember everything y've done for me. Wish you happy.
@Zhizho (1350)
• Indonesia
10 Jun 09
I have two sister and one brother.I am older sister.Yes,I have good relation with them.We live in different country after married but we need to call each other.once in a week minimum, even every day if there is thing to discus.Many benefit with having good relation with family.They are priceless asset in the world.
@cassaleo (32)
• United States
10 Jun 09
alright now this is going to be a long one. I have five brothers and four sisters. In addition to that group I have two step brothers and four step sisters whose parents are neither married to any of my parents! I speak to all of my siblings and most of them live near me! I do not get to see most of them because we are all over the place most of the time. I am the middle child literally! My mom had four kids which I am the baby child and my dad had six which I am the 2nd oldest. I know that makes absolutely no sense but the oldest is 41 and the youngest is 12. I would help each and every one of them if they so needed it. I would give my last for any of them. I could not tell you if all of them would do for me as I would do for them because some of them are young. There is not a whole lot that they can do. I would love to get them altogether and have a big reunion. That would ultimately be my happiest moment in life. However, I do not see that happening anytime soon!
@leyisa (486)
• Canada
10 Jun 09
Hi icesmile - I have 5 brothers, no sisters. I am the youngest of six children and the only girl. My brothers and I are very close, especiallly now that we are older....When we were younger, we weren't as close. I will help anyone of them out when they need it and the same goes for them. All of my brothers are married with children, including myself. We all try to get together as often as possible, but it's hard since 2 of them live the states (i'm in canada) and one lives in Sweden. However, at christmas time they all come to canda and we go to my dad's house for x-mas diner (since his house is the only house big enough to hold his six kids and their spouses and all the children...
• India
10 Jun 09
Hi I am Indian and you well know that we believe in joint family. When we have any elder brother he defiantly there to help you but if you have elder sister than it's very good. She would be your friend,sister,mother and many more you can share all your secrets to her even you can share your girlfriends relation & she can help you as whenever you needed that one
@regal_aeros (2605)
• Singapore
10 Jun 09
well being the only child, at times i wish i had siblings so that my parents don't zoom in on me with all their attention and focus. It gets quite annoying. And at times i wished i had an elder brother to lavish on me. Other times, i'm happy being alone. To have my own "me" time.
@emandi (102)
• Philippines
10 Jun 09
I have a younger brother and that's it :) We fight a lot (we wouldn't be siblings if we didn't) but I'm only two years older than he is so I really don't know what life would be like as an only child. But naturally I love him to pieces and hope he never reads this lol
@ethereal1 (215)
• Australia
10 Jun 09
I have 1 younger brother and 1 younger sister. They are my best friends, because I know I can trust them with my life, we all help each other out in a lot of ways. We lend money or possessions to each other, but most importantly, we are always there for the others if they need someone to talk to and help with problems in their lives. I couldn't imagine my life without my brother and sister, and I am so thankful to have them!!
@WarWolf (15)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
10 Jun 09
Hy i am from Croatia...I have my 3 sisters,we are in good relations i go to them about one a week and then we just change parts 1 week is turn for one of us to visit other and we take turns it is good plan...If i was only one i will like it but now i wont trade them for nothing
• India
10 Jun 09
It's nice to have brothers and sisters rather than alone. Because there will be crazy fights and mischevious things will happen. You can blame on the other for your mistake. There will be lot of fun. Prefer not to be alone.