If someone stole your honey what would you do?
By Citychic
@Citychic (4067)
United States
June 10, 2009 5:43pm CST
Hey mylotters, let's say that you've been going with your significant other for over three years or even if it's your spouse, say the two of you have been kicking it for a while and then one night your honey decided to go out clubbing without you and you stayed home and chilled out by the tv or whatever and then somebody stole your honey away from you because that person was able to fulfill certain needs in your honey that you couldn't provide, so what would you do?
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15 responses
@hoodedboi (185)
• Philippines
11 Jun 09
Well of course, I would be devastated cause it is not just my honey that was stolen, but a part of my life as well. I believe that the most important thing to do is to pray and ask for God's purpose on why you were given that kind of obstacle. Most of the people will deal with that situation in different ways, and the sad thing is majority of them result to impulsive and violent ways that ends up in a court battle. "Fight your battle on your knees" meaning kneel and pray, then let God work on your life and guide you as you go through each and every battle that you will encounter in your journey through life.
@Citychic (4067)
• United States
11 Jun 09
What would you do if someone stole your honey...........
Hello Hoodedboi, thanks for sharing. It's good that you have that kind of faith and that you have found your soul mate. But also it's good to keep your eyes open and not be blinded to just think that they are exclusively yours. As things happen in life and we just never know what might happen when we start thinking that we got it made. The advice that you gave was very good and I do believe in praying and in the power of prayer but also I believe if they want to go, just let them go because everything will work it's way out eventually. This is the faith that I have,
Happy mylot
Happy mylot@Citychic (4067)
• United States
11 Jun 09
Sorry Hoodedboi, I gave you the wrong comment. I was thinking about someone else when I replied to you. So forgive me for writing in the part about the soul mate and all of that. It was meant for someone else. Anyhow I do allow God to fight my battles and I have totally surrendered my life to God so it's his now to do with as he please. Even though I still try to have my own way in it every now and then. But as far as having a partner I'm content as I wait on the Lord to deliver to me who he want me to have. Take care and have a great day.
@Mickie30 (2626)
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11 Jun 09
They wouldn't steal my husband we are soul mates and we love each other very much. There would be no way me or my husband would be happy with anyone else. We fulfill all our needs and there is nobody else who could fulfill our needs more. We also do not go out clubbing and because we are both Christian's we find our faith in God helps our marriage.
@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
11 Jun 09
Oh no...they better not do that stealing my honey.
That is really sad. The question is what really happened,
what make your partner do that. The best thing to do is to let
her go if you can't reconcile your differences.
@Citychic (4067)
• United States
11 Jun 09
If someone stole your honey, what would you do?
Hello my friend, it's not a real scenario but a made up one. It is just something that I happened to think of inside of my head. Just so that I could see how many people would respond to it. It's not real okay? Please forgive me if you thought it was really happening to me. I still got my honey here with me even though it's not always sweet. Take care and have a wonderful day.
Happy mylot!
Happy mylot!
@thenextnoel (396)
• Philippines
11 Jun 09
I'd probably leave my significant other. She has a choice to refuse advances from other people and if she chose to give in then it's probably not going to work out long term.
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@Citychic (4067)
• United States
11 Jun 09
What would you do if someone stole your honey?
Hello friend, thanks for your response. You are right, everyone has a choice whether they would give in to that kind of temptation. So would you tell her good bye, giver her a going away party or anything of that nature? Hee hee hee. Just joking thanks again and have a nice life....
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@Windflower258 (114)
• China
11 Jun 09
Be easy... my friend.An old saying goes:"If something or someone can leave you,that means she(he) never belongs to you." I know you are upset and heartbreak now,but tomorrow is another day,go on,without him,and try to be more happpier than he!One day he will be regreted.
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@Citychic (4067)
• United States
11 Jun 09
If someone stole you honey what would you do?
Hello my friend, as I mentioned b4, this didn't really happen. The question was directed to you, what would you do, yes you, if someone stole your honey away? You gave some excellent advice but but let me assure you that I"m perfectly okay. Happy mylotting.
@mumuamumu (26)
• China
11 Jun 09
my heart broken
but time can wash anything that hurt you
more than a year ,in have forgotten her
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@Citychic (4067)
• United States
11 Jun 09
If someone stole your honey what would you do?
I agree that time can wash alway all hurt and you will be good as new again. Take care and thanks for responding...... Hopefully your honey will never leave you. Happpy Mylotting, have a great day with lots of sunshine and laughter. Peace out
@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
10 Jun 09
Whoa, for one funny second I thought you meant honey as in the sticky sweet stuff that Winnie the Pooh likes.
Seriously, the way my marriage is going, the answer would have to be to get out on my own and then eventually find another honey.
@Citychic (4067)
• United States
11 Jun 09
If someone stole you honey what would you do?
Hee hee, well in a way of speaking I can understand why you would think of the sticky sweet stuff:). But yeah okay I hear what you're saying and I agree with you 100 percent, if things are that shakey it might be best to just let it go and make a new life with someone else. Happy Mylotting!
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@Cifer69 (187)
• Philippines
10 Jun 09
Well for me is I would try to get her back and won't let her go with out a fight first lol
but is she doesn't really want to be with me then I have to deal with it and move on to find another one
If she comes back then it would be great though ^_^
@Citychic (4067)
• United States
11 Jun 09
What would you do if someone stole you honey?
Well you sound like a good man to want to fight for her. But if she refused to come back then you got to realize that everything happens for a reason and maybe she is in love with the other fellow. In which case you should swallow your pride and be happy for her as you let her go. Thanks for responding. Happy mylot.
@med889 (5941)
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11 Jun 09
Someone who was with you for three years an prefered another one instea of you then make yourself underatand that she was never yours, so better to fin another honey, The one who stays and understan you as you are then she is the pure honey not the immitation honey.
@Citychic (4067)
• United States
11 Jun 09
If someone stole you honey what would you do?
Hey that is a great way of putting it. Well only time will tell in the long run what is pure and what is the imitation. Thanks for sharing. Happy mylotting. This didn't actually happen to me, my situation is different and I don't feel much like going into it right now. But I will still remember what you said because it was very helpful. So thanks for sharing and have a great day!
@Citychic (4067)
• United States
11 Jun 09
If someone stole your honey what would you do?
Hello there elsMarie, so you would try to win him back huh, okay that's interesting. But I think that I liked your second answer better, by thinking it's his loss and not yours. Set him free and run and find you another one. Hee hee, happy Mylot!
@Ingkingderders (3832)
• Philippines
10 Jun 09
Leave the relationship.. Say to myself, it is not my lost, it's his.. ( Just make sure that you gave it your all and you tried your best, cause if you didn't.. then it's your fault. LOL)... You will find someone that will accept you for who you are and what you can give.. and understand everything about you. =)
@Citychic (4067)
• United States
10 Jun 09
if someone stole your honey?
Hello Ingkingderders, thanks for your response, I guess I'm with you on this one, although it would be very hard to take I guess I would have to try to see it as a blessing in disguise. If they can be stolen that easily then they might need to go on their way. Thanks for sharing! Hope your honey never gets stolen. Peace out.
@gabrielgadfly (110)
• United States
10 Jun 09
Deal with it. Find out what you were lacking, improve it, and find another honey.
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@Citychic (4067)
• United States
10 Jun 09
If someone stole your honey?
Hey Gabrielgadfly,
You are right, that would be the best thing to do is to find another honey and let the old one go on about their way. Although trying to improve upon what you were lacking might not be a good idea. But then again it can never hurt to try. Peace out. Thanks for sharing.Happy mylot!
Happy mylot!
@xoxcharityxox (567)
• United States
11 Jun 09
Well, they weren't truely your honey if they could be stolen in the first place. I'd be sad, but move on with life until I found the happiness I was looking for.
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@Citychic (4067)
• United States
11 Jun 09
If someone stole you honey, what would you do?
Okay, I hear you loud and clear and thanks for sharing your thoughts and comments, I imagine that anyone would be sad if this really happened to them but life goes on and it waits for no one. I think that I might want to fight someone initially if they stole my honey but after giving it some thought I would regroup and probably tell the other person thanks for taking it off my hands. As you said if they can be stolen so easily they probably weren't committed to the relationship in the first place. Happy mylotting.
@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
10 Jun 09
If he is your spouse, fight for him. You gotta be sexy again to accomplish that. If he is just your boyfriend, get over it. He is not worth it.
@Citychic (4067)
• United States
11 Jun 09
What would you do if someone stole you honey?
Hee hee, well it wasn't me that I was referring to. I was asking what would you do if someone stole your sweet man, lols? Okay so you would fight for him if it was your spouse. But not me, thanks but no thanks, there are too many fish in the sea. I appreciate your response though. Take care and have a nice day.
@ryaeneolver (87)
• Philippines
21 Jun 09
if hes already my husband, i would definitely fight for him, I will find ways to win him back again, and start all over agin..
