Have your friends take advantage your kindness?
By Zhizho
@Zhizho (1350)
Indonesia
June 11, 2009 6:44am CST
Today,I am in a bad humour.I can not cover my feel when I met my friend.I think,my friend was utilize my kindness.I had helped her to carry out her duties,but long run,she always asked me to do her duties.So,I feel that she utilizes my kindness?what do you think?
6 responses
@eliezl (610)
• Philippines
11 Jun 09
ive been there...it happens to people who are too kind. when people are too kind and doesnt limit their generosity and kindness, people will start to abuse them. ive experienced that lots of times. thats why its important to limit ourselves to. to leave some for ourselves and not totally give or consider other people's situation when for them we're just an option.
i especially hate it when people only remember us when they need something from us and go on with their lives when their troubles are resolved...tsk tsk...
@Zhizho (1350)
• Indonesia
11 Jun 09
Thankyou.You are right.All this time,I would like to hel her because I think she may indeed need some help.So,I always positif thinking to her.But,when he still have time do other things,I realize he was using my kindness.
Now,I turned a dear ear her.But I can't cover my feel when I met her.
@modstar (9605)
• Philippines
11 Jun 09
Well yeah! I guess we all have come across with a friend like that. Most of my friends before would come here at our house just to use the computer and they would spend it from morning to night. I can't even dress up in my room because they're here. I was so fed up and i'm glad that it was over. It's really hard to lose my privacy and my time to use the computer.
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
11 Jun 09
we had this happend a few times, now i am picky about who i am helping these days..
@iamsolucky (1241)
• Philippines
11 Jun 09
I experienced this kind of treatment, and i do now consider that if my " friends" do this, they are not really the kind that we call " best friends". To be a friend is willingness to help each other too. Not just by taking advantage of your kindness/goodness. This time i am really careful about making friends, some really use that term but not really feeling the real meaning of it. Most people will use that term friend for power, money, and just for the sake of being popular.
@unicorn4154 (153)
• Malaysia
11 Jun 09
take advantage from your kindness,,thats life..but friend like her, suck man..
