If you delete someone off your friend list....

HiJen! , I feel that your apprehensions are correct, if you delete someone off from your list of friends, he/she remains no more on your friends list and in his/her list, your name also disappears. If you happen to delete someone's name by mistake, you can always send him/her the request again and when he would check that your name has disappeared from his list, he will add you again. (If you mistakenly delete my name from your list, you can send the request to me, I'll immediately accept it thinking that you did it unintentionally.)

I believe it does. I've noticed a few people that had been on my friends list that aren't on there anymore. I'm assuming they deleted me as I don't make it a habit to delete people from my friends list. One such person was on the first page of my friends list, but isn't on there anymore. And when I go to their page it says "add as a friend", which leads me to believe that when someone deletes someone off their friends list both parties are no longer on each others list of friends.

Oh for sure. If you delete someone as your friend then you can't be on their list as then you are still friends with that person. It is only logical but it is good that you asked since you didn't know. I tend to clean up my friends list about every three months and delete the ones that haven't been active. Sometimes I end up deleteing someone that was away for awhile and then came back and asked me to be their friend again. If they stay active I will be friends with them but when some one doesn't log into mylot for three months or more, than I don't need to be friends with them since we don't converse together.

I've not yet deleted anyone before, and I don't see the need unless the user gives me unwanted spams throughout, LOL. I tend to always be wanting to see the good in people first and not deleting them for no apparent reason. In my life, I've friends whom I know are not that sincere but I just keep quiet. Because there is this hope that there will change for the better, and who knows. Perhaps I'm too laid-back for my own good.

Yes it does. I had a rather irksome friend and i can assure you it removes a friends request both ways.

I have not deleted anyone yet so I am not sure. I presume that if one got deleted you would both be off each other’s lists. What I would like to know is; if you deny a friend’s request does the other party get advised that his or her friends request was not approved?

As far as I know, yes, it deletes them as well. At least that's how it's worked with me. [b]~~AT PEACE WITHIN~~ **STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS**[/b]

I have no idea if it will delete from other side too, cuz never delete anyone before and I have no idea how many on my list either.. once they add me in and I add them in as well.

yes i think it does!!such as i never had experienced about it seeing that normally i did not delete friends or people in my contacts list here on mylot but i think if you delete from your list even on the other one will be the same!!

I dont know since I never felt the need to delete anyone from my list, but other members say that when you delete someone from your list it will automatically delete you from there list too.

I have not try this button before and not very sure how its work. It could be, think so. But why you want to delete your friend's from your list? Are they spamming on you?

hi jenintn, i think if i remove someone from my friend list then it automaticaly occures to that person also. my name will also remove from his/her list. once i deleated a person from my list bcoz he had no activities in mylot without a huge friend list. he was in point 1 one month ago and now too. perhaps you are also added to his friend list. have u ever deleted someone from your friend list?

Hi, i have never deleted others or my friends from my list. So i am not sure whether it will remove us from their list too. I do not delete my friends from my list, just because i think that if i do so, and what if when they know that i've deleted them from my list. I was just afraid that any notification will send to the person to inform him or her, and then he/she will feel sad about it, haha. Anyway, thanks for having this discussion too. I was just wondering about this too. :)

Well of course it should it's like somebody using Myspace, Facebook or even this site to say that once you have confirm to delete someone you have every given right to have that person off your list. For me I would only delete somebody off my list if they start spamming me and I do hate that as a first impression by the way. Earlier some guy asked for a request and I added him. Minutes later, he sends me like a long page getting paid opportunity which of course was a spam message. It irritated me so much I replied to the guy to stop spamming me then I ended up deleting him off my list.

Yes it does, JenInTN. Once I wanted to search for someone in my list who hadn't been around for some time. I wanted to leave comment on her page. But I just couldn't find her in my list. Later I found out that she had deleted me off her list. So, it works bothways.

Yes it does. A person I knew quit the Lot and deleted everyone off her friend's list first and she's gone from my list...

I'm pretty sure it does. Can't be sure, though. I've never questioned it. I did take one person in particular off of my friend's list because she was trying to get me banned from myLot. All I was doing was trying to help her because she asked for help, but she turned on me like a wild animal! Maybe she didn't like the advice I gave her because she was the kind who didn't really want advice, she just wanted attention. But, man, did she ever become vicious! I wrote to myLot admin about her, just to let them know what she was up to because I didn't want to get banned; all I wanted to do was avoid her. But, she kept following me around, writing nasty comments or snide little remarks. So, I deleted her from my friend's list and I didn't hear from her after that. I can only assume that I was off of her friend's list once I deleted her from mine. By the way, she only managed to get herself banned, permanently. I think that was because I wrote to the admin before she got too out of hand. They actually wrote back to me, telling me that they would be "watching" the situation and take appropriate action.

That's a good question. I would think that it would just delete off your list. I'm not sure since I have never deleted someone before.

I don't know yet if it is so. As far as I know I only deleted one from my friend's list here on mylot when it happened I had a troubled with someone who referred me his online business site and never supported all what I need to know. From then on, he never showed up and I never received notification from him.....

i don't know what to do why do you delete your friend ????