i am not shamed to ask this question

June 17, 2009 4:35pm CST
i am a plus size girl and my boyfriend is smaller than me and when we umm you know have intorcourse hes on top. he always asks me to get on top but i saw no im scared im going to hurt him my question if i guess aiming at plus size women what can i do to improve my self in bed
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@goldeneagle (6776)
• United States
17 Jun 09
I have dated several plus-size women in the past. I like a woman with a little meat on her. I have never had a problem with a bigger woman hurting me when she was riding me. I would think you would have to get really rough to actually hurt him. I love having a big woman on top of me. You should really give it a try. Just start out easy until you get more confident in the fact that you aren't going to crush him. I will almost guarantee that you are not going to harm him. He will let you know if he wants you to get off him...otherwise enjoy the ride.
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17 Jun 09
i just get scared i mean the way i look, i look like a big girl but iweigh more than i look wich is good and bad i wouldnt mind getting on top if i werent so freakin scared. if you dont mind me asking do you live in the states goldeneagle?
• United States
17 Jun 09
yeah I live in Florida. Why do you ask? As for the issue of you getting on top...just give it a try and start out easy at first. He will let you know if you are hurting him, but I assure you that he will probably end up begging you NOT to stop...LOL
• India
18 Jun 09
GoldenGuy ................... You Said it right No Plus No Minus ................. Everything is Lovable Enjoyable Desirable in S--, Be Bold enough to try You will never Stop Riding .............................................. LoL ..............
@sanwhy (87)
• Jamaica
17 Jun 09
my girl the possibility exist that you may need to go on a diet...? lets be realistic and put yourself in jis shoes would you be scared as well. you want to explore the secrets in the bed room then you need to work on it. and do some of the work as well. suprise your boyfriend or you can go back way and let him have it. then you can shake it for him.
17 Jun 09
I started a conversation i think yesterday that its really hard for me to loose weight i watch what i eat i excersice and i wont looseweight or if i do i gain it back by the end of the day my body is wierd i dont know if you have any ways that i can loose weight and keep it off please let me know thank you
@daliaj (5689)
• India
18 Jun 09
I say you should give it a try. Your boy friend will let you know if he wants you to stop it. I personally prefer my partner to have some flesh. I enjoy it when my partner has more weight than me. I don't like me up and it is not intersting since I am light weighted. It will be intersting for sure. Give it a try.
@kaiote (12)
18 Jun 09
Relax. That is how you improve. Your lover is with you because there is attraction there. Your size does not bother him, or he would not be there. There is a very good reason that he wants you on top. He trusts you. If he didn't he would not ask you. There is also every chance that he gets a thrill from having a woman larger than himself in a dominant role. Try it, and see how it does for you. He already knows how it does for him.
@AndrewBoi (369)
• Philippines
18 Jun 09
What do you mena your a plus size girl? are you bigger than him in weight? or height? If you are fatter than him, you can go on a diet or have a regular exercise. Don't be scared if you might hurt him. if he's hurt, you can know that when he complains. IF he's not complaining then just go on. LOL
• United States
18 Jun 09
My gf is a plus size women and i am smaller but She till get on top. dont be scared, And as for losing the wieght if he is with you now then he doesnt care about it.. dont worried about being on top.. you wont hurt him.