It's so hard to be a good person.

China
June 19, 2009 9:23am CST
I'm so mad now!I don't know how to start it... I knew a boy and we were good friends.Finally I introduced him to one of my room-mates,also a good friesnd,because both of them wanted to find a lover.And they finally got together,and they are enjoying a happy life now. But she becomes estranged to us.We don't know why.And today the other room-mate told me that the girl maybe think I was too ambiguous with her boyfriend before they met and she even thought that I could nearly become his GF!!OMG!!How preposterous!He just one of my friends and I just introduced him to her for good.Why does she think me as this?I have a BF,and I love him very much!!I don't understand !!I just act as a go-between,and I want them to be good! Oh,it's so hard to be a good person,Why does she misunderstand me?I even didn't contact with that boy for a long time since they were together. Can anybody tell me how to solve this problem?
2 responses
@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
19 Jun 09
If I were you I will just ignore her. She's not worth it because she is just being negative and accusing you of something that you are innocent of. No matter how you will present your explanation her mind is already close. So...ignore her.
• China
19 Jun 09
Well, I'll consider your suggestion.Thank you.
@bird123 (10632)
• United States
20 Jun 09
Direct honest communication always works for me. Of course there is the off chance that your friend just wants out of the relationship and is using you as the excuse.