Do you still love your ex?

Philippines
June 19, 2009 10:45am CST
I cannot answer this question myself because I really really hate him because of what he did. He migrated to US and then broke up with me after 3 months. He spilled issues about us. He said bad words to me. But still, I can't help it....He's always on my mind. I always associate things with him. But I don't want him anymore though he'll say sorry or whatever. I really need to dump him. What's this.... ?:(
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15 responses
@eLsMarie (4148)
• Philippines
20 Jun 09
after realizing that there are people who are suffering from much more misery than i do, i let go of my feelings for my ex already... i can say that i still care for him and i think it's enough although i know that he's already very happy now with his family.... :(
• Philippines
21 Jun 09
I know how you feel, I've been there already, letting go of someone you love is a tough thing to do...I know in time you will be able to forget all about him, remember, "time heals all wounds" So cheer up girl... just keep yourself busy for easy recovering, go out with your friends... Dont go to the places that you and your ex used to go to, it will just make you to remember him... You deserve someone better... and everybody deserves to be happy...
• Indonesia
20 Jun 09
hei...hei...the answer is simple...I can forget him If I've get the new he3x...please dont thing about him,the bautifu story or bad story about you and him is gone...dont thing about love too much...it can broke our self...thing about your future and make your life so look beautiful smile and loughter although he said bad words to you... ok
• China
20 Jun 09
I don't love my ex.He is the history, none of my business.and now he is someone 's sugar . Now i met Edward Ferder ,he is a good guy ,a bit cute . he is the light of my lif e .I can't live without him
• United States
20 Jun 09
god no, that crazy Bit** has problems, for 3 years she was after me, so then i asked her to a movie and she said okay, the next day she said no. and then the year after, she did the same to me, and i said yes and she called it off again. and then she wrote me a note and it told me how much she liked me, and then i went to do things that she wanted me to, as it said in the note, and plz plz it wasnt sexually at all. and she said you wanna go out and i said sure, that bit** was going out with another guy. I hate her, and that bad thing is i still have to see her at school! I moved on and found this girl who i am absolutely in love with, but she is moving and i dont know whats going to happen. Every thing i do, sleeping dreaming, thinking, seeing things, i think of her, i cant get her off my mind.
• Philippines
23 Jun 09
i feel what you feel. like, she had already done so many bad things to you but still you can't get her off your mind. it's too difficult to forget those persons you really loved.
@sexyposh (576)
• Philippines
19 Jun 09
Maybe you're just not yet ready to be on your own... just imagine this... how many years did you live without him, for sure you can double the years...:) And everything is in process... you can do it girl!
@caesarin (1091)
• Indonesia
20 Jun 09
It could be the reason why you can't forget him yet.
• Philippines
21 Jun 09
When I broke up with somebody, or if somebody dumped me ( which is not happened to me yet), I do all the possible things to forget about all him, thinking all those negative things about my ex help me a lot, and keeping myself busy just to get rid of him...
@bdugas (3582)
• United States
20 Jun 09
I have an ex, we was together 9 years, and we broke up bitterly, after so many years and looking back, I see now that I had the best thing in the world, just thought that the grass was greener in the next field over. I would give all I got to just be able to make it right with him. I have same friends as he does. If you can hear me out there, I'm sorry and I will always love you.
@xannebull (1806)
• Philippines
20 Jun 09
he really did bad to you so what you did is a good thing, dumping him is a good thing that you do. he's not worthy to love though, so you better take him off your mind than going back to him and doing it again to you. it's a form of self - respect and i appreciate you for that.someday he'll get out of your mind.
@achinthya (1219)
• India
20 Jun 09
I don't love my ex anymore but I do still cherish some of the good moments which we spent together..
@ckyera (17261)
• Philippines
20 Jun 09
hello flexyerminds! in my case i can say that "i remember the boy, but i don't remember the feeling anymore!" we ended good and so we have no bitterness with what we have. and now he is just a part of my past. in your case, i think its just normal that he is still in your mind event though you hates him. obviously your,re not getting over yet...and it surely will takes time. if you don't really love him anymore, then start moving on...i know forgiveness will not come easily in this case but its the best thing you can do, accept, forgive , forget and move on... you deserved to be happy and you will just be happy if you let it all go... i wish you goodluck and looking forward for your happiness!
@yenwie84 (1345)
• Malaysia
20 Jun 09
When I first saw this topic,it was just like the thing I had been thinking of yesterday. Well,yesterday I cleaned up my mail box,I found out last my ex used to send a lot of emails to me,all of them sounded sweet to me but he never mentioned one thing to me that he loves me. This was the reason I broke up with him 4 years ago,I really could not accept a guy who had been so stingy to give his love to me. I can answer your question now. I no longer love him anymore,but of course there were memories which I cannot delete them in my brain. I tried very hard before not to recall about all the things he had done before,but I just could not help about it. Maybe I am missing him but I am not loving him. Sounds weird huh? I think just memories. Maybe you should try to let go the memories then only can let go him out of your life. Cheers.
@Pigglies (9339)
• United States
20 Jun 09
I don't love my ex, but I do somewhat still care about her. Today I was trying to make myself throw away some clothes she gave me, when I realized that they still sort of meant something to me. Not in a way like I would love to get back together with her, but in a way like I just want to at least remember her a bit. Maybe just enough to not date someone like her again, lol.
@dodo19 (32568)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
19 Jun 09
No, I'm not in love with my ex-boyfriend. I haven't seen or spoken to him in the longest time. I don't really feel anything for him. I don't love him, but I don't hate him either. I'm really not sure how I feel about him. Besides, I'm engaged to a really great guy, whom I am in love with.
@caesarin (1091)
• Indonesia
19 Jun 09
No. I broke his heart for breaking up with him for my husband. He didn't want to break up with me at that time but I just have to because it was for my life. We never keep in touch after. But sometimes I'm just curious on how he's doing because he said he was afraid not to be able to find someone like me. LOL. But now he's married with a baby, a baby girl. I met him several times but never too close to talk. I don't know whether he still wants to talk to me. But he did with my brother. Just about several weeks ago he met my brother and he said hi, etc. My advice: It might not be easy for you to forget him but you have to. You wouldn't want to love someone who said bad things about you especially after you are separated / broke up with him.
@reckon21 (3487)
• Philippines
19 Jun 09
I think you still love your ex. And if you ask me that question, my answer is no. I already forgotten my ex although I still remember her name. I have a new girlfriend now and she's everything to me.
@Sherka (82)
• Jamaica
19 Jun 09
In response to the question, i still do care about my ex but i dont love him the way i use to. We still talk, when we see each other we hug because thats how he greets people but he was the one who broke up with and though he said he was sorry, i dont think i could go back again in a relationship with him though he has asked a couple of times.