your secrets, tell to your friend or mother or any other person?

@zearah (5289)
Philippines
June 23, 2009 9:02am CST
most of the time with whom you would tell your secrets, me i prefer to tell to mother because i'm confident she would not betray me, her mouth would be sealed,and she will protect me in any way. she will be hurt double times when i'm hurt. is there other person you trusted most?
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@rapolu_cs (1184)
• India
29 Jun 09
Well,even after my marriage i like to tell all my secrets to my mother as she is my all time favourite and sometimes i will share with my wife too with my mother's wish and both of them till now maintained their value and helped me by not leeking my secrets with others and now i trust them both.
@zearah (5289)
• Philippines
29 Jun 09
Yes, mother would always be the best. And so your partner too, as in your case in your wife you could tell secrets. Well basically each and every person have different choice as would depend in case to case basis.
@sublime03 (1811)
• Philippines
23 Jun 09
I usually tell my friendS my secrets instead of to my mom or dad. To me, It defeats the reason to why it is a secret if my mom knew what I was up to. Besides, I hardly tell other people what I am going thru and would rather prefer it that way that I am a mystery to them.
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@zearah (5289)
• Philippines
23 Jun 09
aha so your a secretive type, anyway whether you conceal it or confess ther is only one who knows it! yes God is there, so whenever your nervous and suffering tensions just whisper or close your eyes and ask Him, He will come and protect you from harm, yes He's that could ease your mind. thank you and happy staying here in mylot!:):):)
@voldrox (7204)
• India
23 Jun 09
hmmm... it pretty much depends you know ... like ... i also categorize the secrets, some of them i share with close friends of mine, with friends i share about the girl i like and what i think about her and all such sort of things, but personal ones i rather keep it with me... :P
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• Philippines
23 Jun 09
I usually keep secrets to myself, I'd rather not share them even to my closest friend -- my Mom. It's not because I'm afraid people might betray me (though I've experienced such betrayal and it was not pleasant) but because I feel uncomfortable burdening other people with my issues and putting pressure on them to keep it to themselves.
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@ckyera (17261)
• Philippines
23 Jun 09
hello zearah... i usually share things with my mother for she is my best friend and i have my full trust on her... i also share some secrets with my other close friend but just petty secrets...i mean secret that are not really secret...hehehe but there are also some secrets that i don't share to anyone, secrets that i just keep to myself and just confess or share with God... have a nice day friend!
@zearah (5289)
• Philippines
23 Jun 09
how are you ckyera? i observed we have things in common. yeah it's safer to confess with mother, majority of your secrets, yes and only minor secrets to reveal with friends. yes, girl in God we should confess the secret above all secrets. keep on doing well girl... i wanna tell to you my secret today... i hope this is only for the two of us...my rate went down, i'm sad...don't tell anybody okay! enjoy your night here in mylot!
@ckyera (17261)
• Philippines
23 Jun 09
how come it went down? the only reason i see is if there's somebody who rated you negative... but don't worry it won't affect earnings and as i can see it you work very fast and you are very active...i think your just new and yet you already have a star! it takes me 7 months before i got one...but its just because i am inactive for those months... i hope your ranking will be up again...just keep on posting and always follow the rules and regulations...and avoid heated discussions...
@zearah (5289)
• Philippines
23 Jun 09
aha yeah, those were possible reasons as what you've mention, i guess so, anyway it would not affect or pull down the earning balance so no reason to worry. yes i would continue participating and be active in any way at my most convenient time! thanks for your reply! :) i will go to take rest and sleep soon. good night!
@suj123 (1068)
• India
24 Jun 09
Hii, I tell my all secrets to my friend. I have full faith in her that she will not tell this to anyone. I do tell most of the things to my mom but their are some things that i can't tell her. So its my friend for me. Happy Mylotting.
@zearah (5289)
• Philippines
24 Jun 09
hmmmm she's a lucky friend because she could access to your personal details. Including your earnings in mylot i guess she knows it...he he he...If i would be that friend of yours I will treasure you most. I really enjoy doing here in mylot! thank you! :) :) :)
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@cripfemme (7715)
• United States
24 Jun 09
I tell my friends, Laura, Robyn, and Anita most of my truly secret things. They are very good at keeping my confidences. I rarely tell my mother anything, because she usually doesn't want to know (and often is sorry if she does ask, I'm sad to say)/
@zearah (5289)
• Philippines
24 Jun 09
oh! it's good to know that from you, seems you trusted most or should i say you're so close to your friends as you've mentioned here! well that's better that there are a number of people whom you can talk with, advantage is you have many sources of advice from which you could easily choose from whenever you are bothered by this secrets you have. thank you and good luck! enjoy here in mylot!:):):)
@jules67 (2790)
• Philippines
23 Jun 09
Well for me, I tell my closest friend my secrets. We have been friends since high school and I know that she can be trusted. Now, who do i tell my not so good secrets? hahaha, I do chat once in a while and I tell some people I have chat with those things that are,,,,, if I have one. Sometimes it is good to tell a stranger or your monitor your dirty little secrets.
@zearah (5289)
• Philippines
23 Jun 09
that's good girl at least you have a reliable friends whom you could share with your secrets. so chatting is your other options...well it's good to know that telling your chat mate would also be possible...hmmmm dirty secrets that means a lot of explanation let's tackle it on private place... here is only you and me would you agree :-P, Thank you jules!
• China
23 Jun 09
I will tell my BF whever i have good thing or bad. i have no secret in front of my BF, i like to tell him all. some of my friends are far away from me, and my parents are advanced in life, so there maybe generation gap between us.
@zearah (5289)
• Philippines
23 Jun 09
wow good for your boyfriend, i'm sure he means a lot to you. to tell him your secrets indicates that you trust him. it's an advantage to both of you, this may strengthen your relationship and avoid misconception because he knows in detail about you and the things happening in your day to day life. kinda interesting relationship. keep it up! smile and be happy here in mylot!
@dozhou (326)
• United States
23 Jun 09
I'd rather keep my secret for my own. Secret is secret. There is no exception to anyone. If you like to tell anyone, it is not secret anymore.
@zearah (5289)
• Philippines
23 Jun 09
yes it could be, and always remember in reality there's nothing as secret because there is God, HE who knows everything both the vulgar and untold, yeah no matter how you would like to keep it as secret, he is there always watching and present. enjoy and be happy don't worry God knows your secret!