Are you always be a Mr. Nice guy?

United States
June 23, 2009 3:12pm CST
Sometimes, you just want to be nice to people. You want to help them out when they need a hand. When they are seems to be in a desperate situation, you just want to bail them out as a good friend always do. Somehow, you did that too often, people just want to take advantage of you. Have you ever experienced that? When you ask them a favor in return, they would always give you an excuse to reject you. So, is it wrong to be too nice? Or you should hold up your horse a little.
3 responses
@cripfemme (7715)
• United States
23 Jun 09
I really try to be nice and go out of my way for people. Often, people tell me to my own detriment. But I'm not the kind of person you can just walk on. It goes like this. I'll be nice, I'll be nice, I'll be nice, and then it's time not to be nice anymore. At that point, it's 0 to bit*ch in about 3.8. Ask my ex-girlfriend or my mother.
@Gesusdid (1681)
• United States
23 Jun 09
well me at times i am a nice guy however people love to take advantage of that and in which i dont let them , but ill forever be real no matter if it might be harsh or not , i go by the saying , " Ill tell the truth , if you or anyone else cant handle it , then forever live in a lie " . i admit at a time i was always that nice guy , but , im not and i got tired of that really quick cause it wasnt going anywhere, people will always respect a real person.
@cher913 (25890)
• Canada
23 Jun 09
my hubby is like that and sometimes it drives me nuts because he is often off doing things for others and not at home. i think you can be too nice at the expense of other things like your family or whatnot.