do you hate being loved too much??

India
June 24, 2009 9:21pm CST
its very good if you are loved by many people.but in my case i tend to get bit suffocated when people start loving me too much let it be my parents,friends or whomsoever.maybe i'm the only one who'll be facing this problem.but i'm sure most of you would agree upon this.what you say?
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@walijo2008 (4649)
• United States
25 Jun 09
Why would a person hate to be loved too much? There are alot of people out there that don't think anybody loves them. I don't think I'm loved too much, I enjoy it.
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• Canada
28 Jun 09
being loved by your family or friends isnt that much of a problem but when its just someone else that you attract that wont let you go is a total diferent situation. I know what its like to be loved too much by someone or just by people u cant decide who to be with.. so I totally agree with you but theres just nothing u can do about it except loved them back :)
@guybrush (4662)
• Australia
27 Jun 09
There are so many different types of love - and I guess our families love us a lot, which can never be too much. However, I think you are talking about someone who smothers us, wants all our attention all the time and tries to stop us having other friends or doing other things without them. This sort of love is not healthy, and if someone behaved like that towards me I would feel very smothered and would definitely want to get them out of my life! In fact, I don't think it's 'love', but possessiveness - and you can never be 'owned' unless you allow it.
• United States
25 Jun 09
i like being loved a lot but by the right person not a stocker or anything like that.
@threnos (216)
• Canada
25 Jun 09
I don't think that I would mind being loved to much at all! As long as it is the healthy type and not the stalkerish type! You can never be loved too much. There are so many people in this world who aren't loved and I feel so sorry for them. Everybody who has a heart and soul requires love to survive each day. It's a necessity.
@geniustiger (1699)
• Philippines
25 Jun 09
No I will not , I will be very happy and cannot control of it that many loves me and care w/ me. Its so complimenting in my part If I know they love me so much. I will not be suffocated instead so inspiring to hear that way. If I will be loved by many people I will do also what they felt fom me. Do good for them who really likes me and respond to what they felt for me so impressive to hear that wonderful word love.
@simonelee (2721)
• China
25 Jun 09
why do you hate to be loved? are they giving much attention on you? you should be happy for that because a lot of people wants to be loved. you are so lucky to be surrounded by people who really care for you. just be thankful and enjoy the loved you have right now.
@ANTIQUELADY (36491)
• United States
25 Jun 09
NO, i don't agree at all w/you. I could never be loved too much.U better appreciate that u are loved that much.
@kun2349 (23475)
• Singapore
25 Jun 09
lol =D As long as one is being loved, it can never be too much.. Because love is a wonderful feeling though it might be too suffocating at times.. Other than that, it's up to us to let them know how we really feel with their actions.. And if they really love us, they will listen to us, instead of following what they think it's best for us.. In that case, they are overly protective of us, and it will only do us more harm than good in the future ^_^ Love has got a limit, only when we tell them so ^_^
@suruchi86 (1873)
• India
25 Jun 09
Yes I agree with you. Sometimes overdose of affection also becomes uncomfortable. However, I think, fortunately (or unfortunately) I'm quite away from this problem.