Do you think that a love relations can t resist if they don t speak same languag

@icesmile (7172)
June 27, 2009 5:09pm CST
Even both use English language as common language people can t say all what they think or feel..i am right? To be in relation with somebody who don t understand your language and you his too, is very hard and can make so much confusions. Are you agree that is hard to comunicate in other language even both speak a second commom language?
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@clutterbug (1051)
• United States
27 Jun 09
I definitely believe that a love relationship can exist. It would take time to learn how to express ones self to the other person, but it's worth it in the long run. We can always draw actions on paper for what we are trying to communicate, or using pantomimes. I don't think the language barrier would ever stop me if the feelings were mutual. Thanks
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@yugasini (12839)
• Anantapur, India
28 Jun 09
hi icesmile, you are quite right, iam the same with lack of English knowledge,how can i express my view in more than better language than this
@tigeraunt (6331)
• Philippines
28 Jun 09
good morning ice. i believe that even if a couple doesn't speak of each language, still they will be able to communicate in other ways. it maybe hard at first. my sister just married a german and she doesn't know how to speak their language, same as this german, he doesn't speak our tagalog dialect but can speak broken english yet i see them very happy. yes! they are here on vacation but will be leaving for germany in july. confusion only happens to people who dont feel the way the other feel when in love. once they are together, they will learn each other's language.
• United States
28 Jun 09
Hi, Icesmile! What an incredibly difficult relationship that would be! Getting communications clarified would surely become frustrating and tiresome. I don't think I could ever do it.
• Canada
28 Jun 09
The word you are looking for is EXIST, as opposed to RESIST. To resist means to avoid doing something, to exist is the act of BEING. For example, people exist, two headed dogs do not exist. As for your question, it is possible for a love relationship to EXIST if the people do not speak the same language. My Uncle, who speaks Danish and English, met my Aunt, who only spoke French. In time they fell in love, learned eachother's languages, and got married. They have one son, and have been married for over 30 years.